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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #31  February 3,2012, 7:43am
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1) Facebook your friends if you want but DON'T Facebook your dates.
2) He is traveling for business. He told you something about his trip, when he was leaving and when he was due to be back. Chill, let him do his work and then when he returns home then you can set up the second date.
3) I will set up the first date via e-mail and then provide my cell phone number prior to the date in case there is a last minute problem and my match / date needs to contact me. I EXPECT her to provide her cell phone number at the same time for the same reason. Any match / date that is unwilling to provide her phone number at that time has little reason to gripe about not getting contacted.
 
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LongLocks wrote :
From a woman's point of view, if he is really interested in you, you'll hear from him.
+1 ... the details are unimportant. You've made an effort, regardless of whether people on this board think that facebook is an appropriate medium (honestly I think people on these boards need to accept the fact that for some people, facebook is the standard of communication). If he's interested, you'll hear from him. If not, his loss.
 
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suzy, I agree completely... I'm more of a phone conversation guy, but I've had more then one match say they prefer facebook and facebook messaging for communication over phone. I can either get offended that they won't give me their number or go with their wishes and friend them on facebook.

As far the OP goes, considering the guy is on a business trip, I'd give it more time. Just leave the match open and if hes interested, he'll accept your FB friend request or at the very least send you a EH mail. I know that personally there have been some times I haven't checked EH or Facebook for while because I've been real busy otherwise. If you don't hear back from him, there are numerous threads about "poofers" that can be referenced.
 
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