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imperfekt is offline imperfekt Post #1  January 30,2012, 9:53am

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from threads about going on the 4th date to dropping the guy, since there was no chemisty. women have no issues getting dates at all. ive done over 6000 approaches and cant even get a women here in NJ/NY on a date. do women really need a personality to get a date? i dont think so. do u agree? Ive read threads here, women stating they are tired of dating but still get dates. One woman has a thread saying she took a break from datng cause the last one really damaged her. But she met a guy at the bar and has a date now. She still has self esteem isssues but can still find dates. I wish i was a white woman
 
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well if it makes you feel any better, I'm a black woman and I still get plenty of dates so being white is not a necessity :-)

Seriously- what's your point? I get that you are embittered about your lack of success, and I don't entirely blame you, but how is going down the 'woman have a much easier time than men' road going to help you? I know you can find more constructive ways to spend your time than complaining or trying yet another canned PUA approach.
 
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Well....hate to point out the obvious here but all those women are not going on dates with each other, they are going on dates with men. It's an equal numbers situation.
 
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Pining on about not being able to get a date isn't going to help your cause. In fact, women find that to be incredibly unattractive.
 
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I always found that the energy you put out.... is the energy you get back.

Sure, everyone needs to vent now and then. But I advise you not include this negative idea in your profile or anytime during your dates....

I'm sure us ladies get dates depending on our looks, just like guys who only date girls because their hot.... not because they look intelligent and well-adjusted in that sweater. At least, for me, online dating opens that door to not only select a date based on looks... you have a profile and questions set up to give you some insight into his/her personality before saying "yes, here's my number, call me sometime".
 
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imperfekt wrote :
from threads about going on the 4th date to dropping the guy, since there was no chemisty. women have no issues getting dates at all. ive done over 6000 approaches and cant even get a women here in NJ/NY on a date.
Well, after 6,000 attempts and 0 successes ... I think it's time to change the approach!
 
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DancingFool wrote :
Well....hate to point out the obvious here but all those women are not going on dates with each other, they are going on dates with men. It's an equal numbers situation.
Yep, I came here to say the same thing. Given that their numbers are similar, the only way it would be easier for women to get dates than men would be if more men than women wanted dates. I don't believe that to be the case. If anything, I would guess the opposite might be true.
 
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6,000 approaches!?

I read a very good article recently. It takes 6002 approaches to find a date!
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_westendgirl_ wrote :
6,000 approaches!?

I read a very good article recently. It takes 6002 approaches to find a date!
Was it an eHA article? Did it require 6002 web page clicks to read it?
 
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No no...it was in Good Housekeeping! :P
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