KikiAZ is offline KikiAZ Post #31  February 2,2012, 12:06pm
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I think she sounds flakey too.

BUT your saying "I'll gt back to you" isn't great under these circs either. "It doesn't seem like our schedules are a good fit. Best of luck in your hunt."
 
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Yes, I think I can agree to some degree on that. My exact words were 'my schedule for next week is not clear right now, I'll get in touch with you when I can get some clarity - Good luck'. I'll try to be more direct next time. Thanks for the feedback.
 
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I think you should get back to her because you said you would. Treat people as you'd like to be treated.

My advice is this, always ask "when are you available?". Do that with her now and see if you get a sensible reply.
 
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You are right, that is the right thing to do. I just sent her a text (asking for her availability) purely as a way to keep my end of the bargain.
 
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Your date is playing head games. If she wanted you to always make the first move, then she should not have invited you out first. She knew that you called, but wanted to wait before responding back. Your date is marginally interested in you which is a sign to start focusing on other matches. I would not stop all communication with his person, but I would not take her seriously and would put her on ice until she shows more interest and consistency. Do yourself a favor and contact other matches. Never out all of your energy into someone you hardly know intil it has been confirmed through actions that your time, effort and overall being is desired and appreciated. Best of luck to you.

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