... I ditched a friend to spend time with "A Guy"


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FairOne is offline FairOne Post #71  February 1,2012, 5:46am
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Deep sigh..so tired of not being able to edit!
I wanted to add that maybe this friend just doesn't like TD, and were it a different guy her reaction would not have been so negative.
 
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FairOne wrote :
Brix was on the money!
I don't want Juss to lose her friendship over this- I don't think it's that serious. But I don't want her to keep apologizing and supplicating to her friend as if she was in the wrong...cause she wasn't. And constantly trying to 'make peace' with the woman will only cement the thought in her mind that she was oh-so-right and juss was dead-wrong.
I'm not recommending supplication, but a willingness to accept the fact that her friend might never really think her boyfriend's angst is as important as Juss does, and that it doesn't make her a lesser person.

If Juss has ever shared any information about the vast number of dates she's had so far, it would be difficult for any married person to take the current relationship seriously for a while. She'd be picturing this happening over and over again with new men.

I don't know. I just know that if I wanted to be friends I'd stop thinking about it and stop wondering who was being less understanding. That's just me.
 
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FairOne wrote :
Deep sigh..so tired of not being able to edit!
I wanted to add that maybe this friend just doesn't like TD, and were it a different guy her reaction would not have been so negative.
Possible.
 
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your friend is out of line...you're going to have a serious talk with a guy you've been involved with for 6 months that you just broke up with. It's not like you ditched her to go on a date with some guy you just met 5 minutes ago. If she can't understand that then she just sounds incredibly selfish.
 
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