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brokensmile76 is offline brokensmile76 Post #11  January 21,2012, 7:49pm
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0 Chemistry and he ignored you for days....what was the question again?
 
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M1ch wrote :
No I don't offer guys my number until I meet them in person. I would have offered my number in person if he had asked for it - he didn't and it only crossed my mind that he hadn't when i got home. His emails are usually short and to the point and I keep mine as the same. I know he has a very busy job which requires long work hours inside and outside the office. My sense is he is not big on social emails and hence, he takes his time to reply - like usually 5, 6 days.

I don't know where you read that stat about 99.9% of women and online dating but I find it hard to feel instant chemistry with a guy I have met online - by the time we meet, I have had plenty of time to reflect about him and prepare ahead of meetng to feel an "instant" click when we first say hello. Maybe I am different. ;-)

Not 99.9% but a large number of women and men daters do believe they need a first meeting spark or jolt.


There isnt enough for me to be convinced he is not interested in you. He could easily be shy or reserved.

As you said about your phone number thing, he may have talked to you previously about getting your number so he felt the ball was in your court to bring up the phone number thing because he felt if he did you will take offense and end it.
 
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Also you said you felt no chemistry with him ...maybe your body screamed that to him..he read it...and didnt bother even sticking his neck out to you.
 
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I think it's time to move on too. If he were THAT interested he would have asked for your phone #. It wasn't that important to him, so he left it hanging.



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1Horselady wrote :
I think it's time to move on too. If he were THAT interested he would have asked for your phone #. It wasn't that important to him, so he left it hanging. Suzie
Yep! Move on!
 
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