boomer_gal is online now boomer_gal Post #21  January 22,2012, 5:29pm
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Bummer... even if Ingy is right - and I think she is - poofing is just plain bad manners. Sorry that happened to you.
 
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UPDATE:

So I went out to dinner with her and we had a nice time, and I kinda broached this "relationship state of the union." She said things that were both disconcerting and reassuring so I'm still a little confused.

She said she's really into me and she's had an amazing time on our dates. She said that she was happy with what we had going, which is a step above casual and a step below a larger commitment. She said that she's afraid of just jumping into love to the neglect of all these other things in her life, so she wants to take it slow and ease into it. She also said she wasn't seeing anyone else BUT that I was welcome to keep dating others. Huh? This confused me greatly.

I guess I'm going to keep going with her. I gotta say, sometimes I don't understand women.
Dead in the water, my friend!

After five dates, if I want him to continue dating others, it means I don't really feel *it* for him.
 
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