Second date and stil no kiss


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Raw_Truth is offline Raw_Truth Post #21  January 14,2012, 7:02pm
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D_Lion wrote :
In theory, this sounds sensible:

- In reality, any woman I could conceivably be interested in has an adult job and is able to make a five minute decision in five minutes, and not months. In the real world, you need to be able to analyze a situation and go long, go short, or go home.

- Kissing a date is nothing close to "a big leap." If you're not prepared to Kiss your date, then be prepared to say goodby and good luck. He didn't meet you to practice using his credit card.

- Obviously the women are rationalizing the OP's partner's non-interest: getting more interest than they give is a popular objective. The men, some of them, are on to this game, and see no need to repeat a dead-end first meeting umpteen times.
Oh, wow - that is what we call a trifecta.

It's outside the norm to turn away a kiss at the end of a second date - does the OP want to date outside the norm? I'd recommend no. Coupled with the "call me" language this situation is most likely DOA.
 
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D_Lion wrote :
I've never had a woman turn away from me, once past the first meeting.

Sad to say, but this does sound like she wants to take everything that going on a date has to offer ... except the date part.
Unfortunately, females of this ilk are a highly UNENDANGERED species.
 
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Ingytravel wrote :
Well...there is only one way to know.....go on one more date...

It could be that you misread her...
It could be that your breath wasn't good at the moment..
It could be that she isn't interested in you physically...


Telling YOU to 'call me' at the end of the date....blechh....I know many disagree with me....but by the 3rd date...I am usually planning and paying for it...I want to show my interest....I want to show that I don't expect a guy to pay/plan for everything...

So...see if SHE calls you....see if she tries to plan the next date...and at the end...just go in for a quick kiss....don't grab around the waist and yank in...

Just move in with your hands, gently, on either side of her face and give a kiss...

And just like the movie Hitch....go in 90%...let her come the last 10%...
That advice is absolutely .... brilliant!!!!
 
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