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emma_hazards is offline emma_hazards Post #11  January 10,2012, 5:14pm
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Hmmm...won't share his phone number after roughly 6 weeks of dating. Disappears for weeks on end.

Married until proven otherwise. I'd bet money that he's in a "committed" relationship of some type. Also not that into you, but you're a nice distraction when he's free and bored.

Different culture is a red herring here.
 
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emma_hazards wrote :
Hmmm...won't share his phone number after roughly 6 weeks of dating. Disappears for weeks on end.

Married until proven otherwise. I'd bet money that he's in a "committed" relationship of some type. Also not that into you, but you're a nice distraction when he's free and bored.

Different culture is a red herring here.
Absolutely agree with this....
 
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He doesn't want you calling /texting on his real phone when his GF is around....that's what gtalk forwarded to phone (only went set) is for.
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I didn't ask again because we communicate on our phones with gtalk.
 
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emma_hazards wrote :
Hmmm...won't share his phone number after roughly 6 weeks of dating. Disappears for weeks on end.

Married until proven otherwise. I'd bet money that he's in a "committed" relationship of some type. Also not that into you, but you're a nice distraction when he's free and bored.

Different culture is a red herring here.
Listen to the girls here ... they know.

Naif that I am, I find it hard to believe this behavior is so prevalent, but it appears that it is.

You have been warned...
 
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Wow... I have been warned... you know, your answer was relevant until you posted that part... now I just feel warned... not helped.
 
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alithia wrote :
Wow... I have been warned... you know, your answer was relevant until you posted that part... now I just feel warned... not helped.
Huh? Not sure I understand your reaction, as warnings are frequently helpful. The general consensus here could be off the mark, but the pattern of behavior does sound mighty suspicious.

Those who hang out here long enough have heard these stories before, and yours has a familiar ring to it.
 
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He doesn't want you calling /texting on his real phone when his GF is around....that's what gtalk forwarded to phone (only went set) is for.
Thank you! You've been very helpful. I think you are right. Whatever the reality of it is, if he is dating around, casually dating, looking for the one, in a relationship and looking to see if there is something better, whatever... he's not giving me what I need and apparently I am not what he is looking for. Moving on...
 
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emma_hazards wrote :
Hmmm...won't share his phone number after roughly 6 weeks of dating. Disappears for weeks on end.

Married until proven otherwise. I'd bet money that he's in a "committed" relationship of some type.
I would tend to agree with the above. He's not available.
 
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