How to break you live with your parents and not get closed

I am in agreement with most here...

The OP needs to shore up his money situation, because he really does appear to be capable of more than what he is currently doing in life, and not look to shack up with his next girlfriend to mooch off of...


HOWEVER...

I do detect a bit of snobbery here with some of the responses here...

Not everyone on eHarmony is college educated or has had success in life in their financial situations.
Does this make them horrible people?
Do they not deserve to be happy and find love as well?

There are many, many people that live paycheck to paycheck, not because they are lazy, but because they drew a worse lot in life compared to some of us, and really do need to share expenses such as housing to be able to get by.

I am thankful every day that I have been blessed with the smarts/brains to be a reasonably successful Engineer, and have been able to save a lot of money for that rainy day that inevitably hits most people at some time in their life.

I'd just like to add that I do have 3 jobs, but I'm only being used in 1 - I'm a part time sales associate, but haven't been used in that job since October (its the slow season), I'm an emergency sub, but haven't been called since early November, so the retail job is the only one I'm working in right now. That job just got extended and I was moved from seasonal to permanent part time, so there's some stability there. Unfortunately, its a slow season after Christmas, so theres going to be a month coming up where Im only going to be making $750 after taxes. I love that some of the snarkier people here threw a "slacker" label on me, but there have been some understanding people too.. I just hope my matches will be as understanding.

Also everyone picked apart a bunch of details, but I still haven't seen anyone come forward and defend or at least agree with me no some points. Namely, that it is completely impossible to contribute equally to a partnership if your partner makes 3 times your salary. So I contributed at a 33% ratio, which was definitely more then our salary difference - which is why she bought new clothes and shoes and jewelry making stuff and what not and I bought very little. Y'all can nitpick that I didn't save every extra dime over the last 6 years and we did go on a few vacations and have some fun, but it was in no way at all mooching and anyone who insists on that, keep your trap shut and your witty repartee to yourself. I think some people are on here just to nitpick others because they are insecure about themselves. If I give you an easy target, you can fire away...

I guess its time to look for a fourth job.

I got passed up by people with masters degrees while I only had a bachelors (and I was the youngest working there by quite a bit). I've always had a lot of passion and enthusiasm and drive and intelligence, but not the work experience/higher education degrees. I know I need someone to give me a shot and let me run with it. It just seems like experience trumps want almost every time. Some one does not need to give you a shot you need to earn it.

But yeah, I did apply myself, I got a lot of positive feedback from the public, I felt like I was well liked by everyone, I took as much responsibility as they'd give me.
Did you go beyond the call of duty and do extra to prove yourself?

I really need someone in a professional setting to look past my sampler of jobs on my resume and believe in my intelligence and drive, its just a really rough job market to do that with.
I look at how long someone sticks with something even if it is not in the field you are applying for. So it would be hard to get a job if you job hop as much as you have indicated. Even if your career was seasonal and you took some meager job why were you not hired back when the season started up again showing that you had long term employment?
I actually had a promising interview with a firm last summer, but instead of hiring positions, they actually laid some people off in the fall... whoops...