Don't be a nice guy, be a good guy..

At one point in time I am sure a lot of people, guys especially, have talked to self proclaimed "nice guys" that always get put in the friend zone or they complain that all girls want to date jerks. Or you will see a guy staring at a beautiful women thinking "if only I could date her" but he won't go up and talk to her.

A nice guy is someone who lacks confidence, acts nervous around women, is afraid to joke, flirt, or playfully touch them, and tries too hard to please women by overdoing compliments, never calling women out on their crap, and in short.. being a pushover. A good guy is a nice guy with balls. He respects women, and treats them extremely well. But he has the self confidence to be himself around women, he doesn't act needy, he flirts, and he doesn't invest too much, too fast. In short, he gives himself options.

It isn't that women want to date jerks. It is just that jerks are more appealing initially because they have confidence, and could care less about rejection. So they don't come off as needy and have that "it" factor that girls find attractive. It isn't until after they have been dating the jerk for awhile, and they realize they can't change them, that they end up leaving.

I used to be one of those "nice guys" who always complained. But it wasn't until I took a hard look at myself and made small changes to my personality, that my luck began to change.

A nice guy is someone who lacks confidence, acts nervous around women, is afraid to joke, flirt, or playfully touch them, and tries too hard to please women by overdoing compliments, never calling women out on their crap, and in short.. being a pushover. A good guy is a nice guy with balls. He respects women, and treats them extremely well. But he has the self confidence to be himself around women, he doesn't act needy, he flirts, and he doesn't invest too much, too fast. In short, he gives himself options.

What do I have to do to be a great guy?

MOTOS doesn't think of you that way already?

It is my prerogative to disagree with you.

A nice guy is someone who lacks confidence, acts nervous around women, is afraid to joke, flirt, or playfully touch them, and tries too hard to please women by overdoing compliments, never calling women out on their crap, and in short.. being a pushover. A good guy is a nice guy with balls. He respects women, and treats them extremely well. But he has the self confidence to be himself around women, he doesn't act needy, he flirts, and he doesn't invest too much, too fast. In short, he gives himself options.

I used to be one of those "nice guys" who always complained. But it wasn't until I took a hard look at myself and made small changes to my personality, that my luck began to change.