Women with BIG hands/feet... Guys, how do you feel?


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peppermint21 is offline peppermint21 Post #61  November 1,2011, 5:13am
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LDJ wrote :
Guys are simple creatures, they like:

big eyes
big smiles
big boobs

The don't like:

big bones
big butts
big noses
big brains
or bigger paycheques

I think hands and feet would go in the 2nd list.
I dunno...some dudes are into amazons/brick houses/lady-nerds or being taken care of.

About hands though, I have large (though proportionate) hands and feet that are still feminine (long bones). I've always gotten compliments on both, even from smaller men. I think it's the overall aesthetic (keeping up skin and nails/bone length/etc.) that changes things, not size. I can palm a basketball and just started a martial art, so my hands are large and now take a beating, but I still get compliments.

I think movement plays a part too. Good dexterity makes for fingers that move gracefully, and guys notice that a lot.

I've heard that men care because when they watch hands, they watch how you touch as a reflection of how you would, potentially, touch them.
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drnh is offline drnh Post #62  January 20,2012, 9:32pm
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For me personally i'd find your big hands extremely attractive.

For as long as i can remember i've always had a "thing" for women with big hands and its the first thing i look at.

I cant explain what it is i find so attractive about it, its just one of those things, the same "thing" that other people might find blonde hair the main attraction.

Having your hand engulf mine would be a definate turn on for me personally but yes, i'm sure many other men wouldn't like it.....just makes us all different.

My hands are pretty small for a guy, they measure 7" from base of palm to tip of middle finger. I've compared to many girls over the years who have commented on them being small and mine are gerneally smaller then theirs, some times by alot.....by they do quite like it.

So there you go, another guys point of view.....not really into feet but it certainly wouldn't bother me at all if a woman had much bigger feet then me.

Maybe you should ask this guy what he thinks, maybe he also really likes his hands so much smaller than yours.
 
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I have little hands and feet, to the point where I've been told they look child-sized. They're proportional to my shorty size, but it would be nice to have fingers that are slim and tapered rather than stubby and nails that I could actually grow. I think my bf said my little feet were cute one time (which was nice of him, because uncovered marathoner feet are most definitely NOT cute), but overall it seems pretty irrelevant.
 
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It wouldn't be an issue for most guys. You have no control over the size of your hands or feet. Why rule someone out for something they have no control over? Only women would do that.
 
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It wouldn't be an issue for most guys. You have no control over the size of your hands or feet. Why rule someone out for something they have no control over? Only women would do that.
 
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myusernamehere wrote :
It wouldn't be an issue for most guys. You have no control over the size of your hands or feet. Why rule someone out for something they have no control over? Only women would do that.

Oh brother. It's common knowledge that men generally place far more importance on the visual, and that many of them (notice I didn't say "all") rule out all women who aren't at least a few years younger than themselves and don't look like their idea of perfection - even men who are themselves, at best, average in terms of looks, fitness, etc.

Many men rule out women of my height (5'9"), or list my height as the max they'll consider, many won't consider women my age, and I too have large hands and feet "for a woman," and I'm sure many would rule me out for that, too. (Actually, I know some would; this is something I've read in profiles.)

But everyone has a right to seek what (s)he wants and finds attractive in a partner, whether the traits are something the other has control over or not; and I say that with no animosity whatsoever.

It's not "his loss" if I'm not what he wants, but it's not mine, either. I like and respect myself far too much to want to be with anyone who doesn't want me, or who "settles" for me but is forever wishing in the back of his mind (or out loud) that I was in some way(s) different .
 
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jussmile wrote :
...because being out with TD I noticed how absolutely tiny his hands were ...

....being with a guy who seems so ... well, petite in this area...
I am more interested in this guys girly hands. Does this correlate to...other areas?
 
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Breezy1 wrote :
I am more interested in this guys girly hands. Does this correlate to...other areas?
Actually, I don't think there's a correlation... I have not found this to be the case.

It's interesting to read that there are guys who are actually "into" big hands. I don't think I've ever heard of such a thing. You like a woman to dwarf your hands in her own? Very interesting... guess there's hope for us big-handers afterall :-)!!

Most guys don't say anything or notice until we're holding hands, or I set my hands on the table... then they're like... "WOW! You sure have big hands don't you?!"

yeah... that is romantic??
 
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jussmile wrote :
Actually, I don't think there's a correlation... I have not found this to be the case.

It's interesting to read that there are guys who are actually "into" big hands. I don't think I've ever heard of such a thing. You like a woman to dwarf your hands in her own? Very interesting... guess there's hope for us big-handers afterall :-)!!

Most guys don't say anything or notice until we're holding hands, or I set my hands on the table... then they're like... "WOW! You sure have big hands don't you?!"

yeah... that is romantic??
They can't be thinking about your hands on their hands. It has to be some other fantasy.
 
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I can dig a woman with big hands and big feet. I have a preference for tall women with the aforementioned features. Ever since I saw the movie Deuce Bigalo Male Gigalo , especially in the foot massage scene where our small hero gives a this really tall Norwegian woman a foot rub on her giant feet. I did find that scene erotic and made me desire and want a tall woman with giant feet. In past dates with tall big footed women I did re anact that tender scene albeit with a much more erotic, romantic and sexual follow up.

Some people find that preference wierd, freaky, or unnatural. But I do not care. But if said girl was tall, long legged, hour glass shaped (voluptuous), and with a wide hips and a big butt, I think I will have found a desirable companion. I like them voluptuous and healthy built the way Robert Crumb drew them in his art work.

Women with big feet turn me on, especially when they wear sandals or when they go barefooting. They make my heart thump with lust.

I have seen youtube vidoes where men have licked , kissed and sucked on giant feet that belong to women. Call it kinky, but it somehow it causes the two people to connect. The adorer and the adored.

Heck, if given the opportunity, I would love to provide that kind of affection to that special big footed woman.

I guess I fall into this little known sub culture of rascally men who love giant footed women. I saythis proudly as I sigh (Siiiighhhhh).

If I ever find a girl like that tall Norwegian woman, it would be ooo la la! Lickity lickity smooch smooch smooch!

Oh to find such a treasure......
 
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