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walkonwaterjoseph is offline walkonwaterjoseph Post #1  October 12,2011, 9:11pm
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If I was feeling good chemistry and if you weren't pushing me sexually, I would most likely be fine with this. If I wasn't quite ready for a more intense physical relationship though, I might be apprehensive. Often, an invitation into your home = an invitation into your bed. So a lot would depend on how I was feeling about where things were headed.
 
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If it feels natural and it's something you want to do ~ then propose it! So what if she feels differently? If she does, you two can come up with another plan.

These are not the kinds of things that make people break-up when there's something there worthy to hold on to.

Oh and just as an fyi... i have date #3 coming up friday ~ she's coming over here and i'm cooking.

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I think this is a good idea for a date and agree with what boomer_gal and richey have said.
 
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In all my dating experiences I was either invited to her place for dinner or invited her to my place for dinner within the first few dates. It's pretty standard "getting to know you" dating activity. Like richey says, if she's not comfortable with that, she'll let you know and you can do something else.
 
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You know what you could do to remove any apprehension she might have about the sex thing is invite her for dinner, tell her you'll be cooking, and then tell her that afterward you've planned an evening out--maybe dancing, or a movie, or a stroll through a nice section of town or something. That way she knows there'll be no strings.
 
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BBLAW wrote :
You know what you could do to remove any apprehension she might have about the sex thing is invite her for dinner, tell her you'll be cooking, and then tell her that afterward you've planned an evening out--maybe dancing, or a movie, or a stroll through a nice section of town or something. That way she knows there'll be no strings.
I ask if they'll be staying overnight and haven't had a "no" yet.
 
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WOWJ - what happened to your other girl who didn't want to be exclusive, or have sex, but seemed OK with getting practically naked and then hitting the brakes? Is she completely out of the rotation now?
 
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If you paid for the first 3 dates... she should consider asking YOU over for dinner at this point to cook dinner for you.

If that hasn't come up... then you can ask her to come over your place to cook dinner, or be so bold to ask her when is she going to cook you a homecooked meal! ... why not!
 
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