Early stage: meeting several girls


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dcs930 is offline dcs930 Post #11  September 1,2011, 1:10pm
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Hmmm, those women may be doing the exact same thing. Would you want to know? I bet NOT, that's kind of a blow to your pride, right?
 
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You don't have any obligation to tell them what you're doing when you're not with them, especially this early. If they ask if you're dating other people, let them know that you are, but you don't have to let them know numbers and dates.

Plus, it adds to that air of mystery when a girl asks if you're busy Friday and you say "yes, but I'm free Sunday" rather than "yes, I'm going out with someone" or "no, I'm just watching TV". Statements like that some consider to be playing games, but it works and does no real harm.
 
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I'd recommend focusing your energy on your "ideal" or front runner. You may loose her by trying to multitask and without your even realizing it...it is easy to tell when someones energy is elsewhere. If that one doesn't work out then continue to the next but cramming a series of dates together...I'm in the rarity but I'd find it to be a complete turn off if I found out someone I started dating was dating hoards of others. I would wonder what exactly his qualifications where to be with him besides being female. My two cents. But that said I would definitely approach it all with being discreet.

Wishing you lots of luck!
 
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