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maffif is offline maffif Post #1  August 13,2011, 7:09pm
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Just got back from a first meet/date. Things were going well. I liked him, until.... at the end of the date he asked if he could kiss me. I said yes. I have never been kissed like this before (and it wasn't OMG, wow!, it was what is he doing?!)
Felt like I was wrestling his tongue! Now, I realize there are different styles of kissing. But, I did not enjoy this style at all and I love kissing!
Would you keep dating someone if you didn't like the way they kissed? Am I being too picky?
 
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Women seem to place more emphasis on this than men. I've never heard a man complain about what a bad kisser their date was.

I usually don't care, but when someone is bad, she's BAD. A few years ago, I was at this bar and was standing, trying to get the bartender's attention. This woman stood next to me and we started talking. She was a friend of a friend. The mutual friend was there that night and found me and the other girl talking. The mutual friend eggs on the other woman, saying "Ahhh, come on, give him a kiss, you know you wanna!"

So me and this woman kiss and she is without a doubt the worst kisser I've ever been with. Her tongue was like sandpaper (she was probably high, now that I think about it) and her mouth was bone dry. She sucked on my tongue and tried to pull it into her mouth, and she pulled HARD. It actually hurt.

That was the worst kiss I ever had. I didn't bother talking to her again.
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maffif wrote :
Just got back from a first meet/date. Things were going well. I liked him, until.... at the end of the date he asked if he could kiss me. I said yes. I have never been kissed like this before (and it wasn't OMG, wow!, it was what is he doing?!)
Felt like I was wrestling his tongue! Now, I realize there are different styles of kissing. But, I did not enjoy this style at all and I love kissing!
Would you keep dating someone if you didn't like the way they kissed? Am I being too picky?
i cant get past that. if that grosses me out in any way, it immediately makes them unattractive. so... no and no.
 
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How important? It's vital. Imperative.
 
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maffif is offline maffif Post #5  August 13,2011, 7:44pm
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Ok, glad isn't just me.
 
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OMG yes, my ex couldn't kiss worth a damn. And I miss it having someone that could
 
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super important!
 
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boomer_gal is offline boomer_gal Post #8  August 13,2011, 11:42pm
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It's a deal breaker.

Ed. to add... the first guy I dated after my divorce was possibly the best kisser of my entire life. He poofed on me & I really wish that I could totally get him out of my mind. And I think I could... if only he weren't such a terrific kisser.
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Kissing is very important. If I don't enjoy kissing someone because they are a terrible kisser, then it will end up being a deal breaker. After all, I intend on doing plenty of kissing with the my "right" guy, so it has to be good.
 
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I love to kiss and be kissed.
I wouldnt jus up an poof on somebody after a kiss gone wrong though.

I'd try to communicate the way I like to be kissed an after that if it still dont improve then I'd have to find somethin totally 'Wow' worthy to keep me around.

Kissin, for me, is a fundamental building block.
 
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