First date: ghost hunt?!


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Farajah is offline Farajah Post #1  August 11,2011, 11:37pm
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So, I met this girl at my school recently. Ironically, it was not more then an hour after I made a post where I said I wasn't going to bother trying for romance, at least for a while.

Now, I got her number, and we talked for a bit. Mostly about our interests, and some basic background stuff. It turns out that we both have a lot of similar interests, including a fascination with the paranormal. After a little more talking, I mentioned that I had gone a couple ghosts hunts (no, not overly successful), and she said she'd like to give it a try.

Now, this struck me as a very unique idea for a first date. I wanted to hear some opinions on the idea, so I can make a decision.
 
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If you have actually found a girl who is interested in ghost hunts you simply have to take her on one. Good job!
 
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good luck for u.
 
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^^^I agree. Maybe she'll get scared and you can protect her!
 
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Farajah wrote :
Now, this struck me as a very unique idea for a first date. I wanted to hear some opinions on the idea, so I can make a decision.
If you're both into that sorta thing, why not?

If you can find an interesting place and good stories about it, it might be fun even if the hunt doesn't succeed. Hmm.. do you think you could pull off, "I know this haunted hotel room we should stay at..."
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Sounds like fun, let us know if you see Elvis...

No clue how long these hunts last or take.. If I were you I would have a few places in mind to extend the date...

Me thinks ghost hunting would make me hungry..









 
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As one who has been on my share of ghost hunts, I would NOT do this for a first date... but maybe a second. I need to know her before I bring her along for something that personal.

Just like, even if she expresses an interest in firearms, I'm not going to have the first date at the shooting range, because I need to know her first. Second or third, sure.

(PS - I guess my town is full of ghosts - out of the 6 or 7 hunts I've been on, there was only one where we did NOT get recordings of strange voices.)
 
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Since you are both into ghosts then this would be a perfect date.

My only concern of this for a first date would be a safety issue. If ghost hunting is done with other people around then that may not be an issue. Also since you met through school you may have some familiarity with each other through class or school activities which may also make this a non-issue.
 
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Me thinks ghost hunting would make me hungry..

TrekRyder10, "hungry" for what exactly...
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So, I tried to set it all up, but she hasn't talked to me in a few days. I sent her a couple texts, but never got one back. My phone is known to do weird things, though, so I'm not sure if its something I did, or if she's just not getting them.

I'd consider calling her, but I don't know what her schedule's like, and I don't really want to interrupt something. I'm also not a big fan of talking over the phone, so kind of a double-whammy there.
 
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