First date: ghost hunt?!


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bobtail12 is offline bobtail12 Post #11  August 14,2011, 2:03pm
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Why not!?? Very unique first date, not many girls would wanna seek out ghosts, so I say go for it
 
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harnomygirl wrote :
If you have actually found a girl who is interested in ghost hunts you simply have to take her on one. Good job!
Really nothing more needs to be said. I was going to say "avoid overly dorky ideas", but you hit the nail on the head.
 
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Farajah wrote :
So, I met this girl at my school recently. Ironically, it was not more then an hour after I made a post where I said I wasn't going to bother trying for romance, at least for a while.

Now, I got her number, and we talked for a bit. Mostly about our interests, and some basic background stuff. It turns out that we both have a lot of similar interests, including a fascination with the paranormal. After a little more talking, I mentioned that I had gone a couple ghosts hunts (no, not overly successful), and she said she'd like to give it a try.

Now, this struck me as a very unique idea for a first date. I wanted to hear some opinions on the idea, so I can make a decision.
I think it's way cool.

It'd be one thing if you didn't know she was into it, but here, she's already expressed interest in it and wants to do it. You sound like you like that sort of thing, too.

It doesn't matter what anyone else here thinks. The only two people who matter -- you and the girl -- both seem in favor of the idea.

Don't bother with our opinion.
 
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FrankTheGreat is offline FrankTheGreat Post #14  August 14,2011, 4:33pm
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Farajah wrote :
So, I tried to set it all up, but she hasn't talked to me in a few days. I sent her a couple texts, but never got one back. My phone is known to do weird things, though, so I'm not sure if its something I did, or if she's just not getting them.

I'd consider calling her, but I don't know what her schedule's like, and I don't really want to interrupt something. I'm also not a big fan of talking over the phone, so kind of a double-whammy there.
Wait. So, what? You're going to leave it to the fates and see if you run into her again?

Find a phone number that doesn't have issues (like a landline) and just call her again. Take the bull by the horns.

If she's not returning messages, though, you may have overestimated her level of interest.
 
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I once went on a date with a teacher from the same town that I went to college at. We went to the area where the town ghost stories come from. But us going there wasn't so much to see if Hatchet Lady would start chasing us down the road but more a long the lines of us being in the middle of nowhere together.
 
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Farajah is offline Farajah Post #16  August 15,2011, 8:04pm
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So I talked to her today, we've set it up for Saturday.
 
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ava123 is offline ava123 Post #17  August 26,2011, 9:43am
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How did it go?
 
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harnomygirl is offline harnomygirl Post #18  August 26,2011, 9:54am
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Farajah wrote :
So I talked to her today, we've set it up for Saturday.
Wonderful! How was it?
 
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