msdominance is offline msdominance Post #41  August 8,2011, 11:36am
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Just tell him you moved too fast. you are human. you thought it was more for you and now you realized its not. a lesson learned for both of you. if the other guys felt anything more for you he would tell you because he wouldn't want to loose you to another guy. If you make the first move with the skype guy you may regret it.
 
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lalove is offline lalove Post #42  August 17,2011, 7:05pm
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Oregon_Coast_Guy wrote :
And people wonder how I've come to the realization that love isn't for me...
love is for everyone. maybe you heven't met her yet.
*fact -physical attraction is fleeting. you don't know pretty face will be ruined by some accident, etc. are you going to bear with that.
*love -takes time. and it comes in packages ... if you love somebody accept him/her. all with the flaws...
*sadly -you will only learn/realize that you love/care for that person when you nearly/lost them..
*wonderful -advice, know what you want. a lasting relationship, or you want to add another file of divorce papers, and broken hearted children. ..
*remember -women, it's much better if the GUY is in love with you, coz we know, that our emotions will develop, so there's hope. but if the GUY doesn't love you, it's 100 to none. when a man says he don't love you, he won't ever.

hope i have helped...
 
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Hi, there. My advice in relation to the exclusive relationship with the man that you are not attracted to, but have a great relationship with is that it's probably better for you to just be friends. Physical attraction doesn't necessarily happen right away -- sometimes you start out as friends and attraction develops; or you start dating someone, and after spending time with them and continuing to see each other, attraction develops. However, in your case, it sounds like you've been seeing this guy for some time, and the attraction isn't there, but you really like each other. It's up to you, but this sounds like more of a friendship to me, as opposed to someone that you should be pursuing an exclusive relationship with.

As for the new guy that you met through school, there could be something there, and the fact that you are leaning in his direction would again indicate that the other guy is more of a friend -- if you wanted to be exclusive with him, you wouldn't be thinking about how much you want to get to know the Skype guy better.
 
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