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i met a girl on match last week and we seem to hit it off.i mean i told her all my basic info all about me and she told me about her.the first day im was a little nerves for me and she did all the talking . and today we click i think. i already have her number and she has mine and we already set a met in 2 weeks. right now she is doing a job in the UK and then coming home.she live 1 hour away from me.i show her my pictures and see hers and she told me today that she can feel a little spark.i would call her but her phone is off right now because she is away.you guys have told me to go local and i have and i think i might have something here. we are taking it slow one day at a time by im and getting to know each other better. it's day 3 so far and today we im for about 5 hours.she also told me that i am her ideal guy .i just need your advice and i just don't want to mess this up.boston3000
 
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Hey Boston,

Best advice I can give you is to enjoy the journey of getting to know each other, but be careful of getting emotionally vested until you've actually met each other face to face. I think there are many folks on here (including myself) that have gotten along famously with someone via texts, emails, even phone calls, only to find that there's a certain something missing when you see each other in person.

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When does she come back to the US? It is best to meet in person ASAP because you don't really know how you "click" with someone until you meet them in person. Meanwhile, try to hold your hopes in check. It is very easy to form unrealistic expectations from IMs, e-mails, phone calls, and even Skype.
 
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see saids it's less then two weeks as of tomorrow. i am telling her asap the sooner the better.that is what i am afraid of having no connection when we met in person.
 
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I would keep contact at a minimum until she returns, in which you can verify she isn't 6'4 and has a goatee..
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PictureImperfect wrote :
When does she come back to the US? It is best to meet in person ASAP because you don't really know how you "click" with someone until you meet them in person. Meanwhile, try to hold your hopes in check. It is very easy to form unrealistic expectations from IMs, e-mails, phone calls, and even Skype.
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boston3000 wrote :
i met a girl on match last week and we seem to hit it off.i mean i told her all my basic info all about me and she told me about her.the first day im was a little nerves for me and she did all the talking . and today we click i think. i already have her number and she has mine and we already set a met in 2 weeks. right now she is doing a job in the UK and then coming home.she live 1 hour away from me.i show her my pictures and see hers and she told me today that she can feel a little spark.i would call her but her phone is off right now because she is away.you guys have told me to go local and i have and i think i might have something here. we are taking it slow one day at a time by im and getting to know each other better. it's day 3 so far and today we im for about 5 hours.she also told me that i am her ideal guy .i just need your advice and i just don't want to mess this up.boston3000
IMing isn't personal or good. You don't have a relationship yet. You haven't gone on a date yet.

Change your expectations, and don't get excited until after you've been on a few dates with her, or else you're setting yourself up for a fall.
 
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