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Xable is offline Xable Post #21  June 14,2011, 12:20pm
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If your great and you know you are great, it doesn't matter what other people say about you because you are still great.
 
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I just can't imagine avoiding hot men because, like millions of average looking men, they might not be ready for ltrs.

No. I would not give up on dating HOT/HOT guys. It doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
 
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I think it helps to be better looking than the guy you're dating. So if you're HOT/HOT/HOT or HOT/HOT/.5 HOT, sure, go ahead and date a HOT/HOT guy.
 
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Most of my adult male relatives are very good looking, highly educated, and financially successful. There have been a few threads implying that men like that must be unpleasantly cocky people. In reality, only a couple of them are. I've waited for other women with brothers, uncles, cousins, etc. to object to the implication but no one else seems to find it odd that anyone would assume something negative about men who have a lot to offer.

I object. They can be nice. Their wives aren't always the best looking women. They seem to stay married once they've picked a wife. Their wives have very pleasant lives and say so. Women looking for matches should aim for men like that, not avoid them.
 
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We are not talking about avoiding guys who have a lot to offer. We are talking about should you avoiding hot/hot guys.
 
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harnomygirl wrote :
I just can't imagine avoiding hot men because, like millions of average looking men, they might not be ready for ltrs.

No. I would not give up on dating HOT/HOT guys. It doesn't sound like a good idea to me.
I agree. This can happen with any guy, not just hot/hot guys. I have had the misfortune of dating two nice looking guys (but not hot by the world's standards) who were not ready for relationships either. So, I don't think it just the extremely hot ones who do this. It is just a matter of finding the right one.
 
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Xable wrote :
We are not talking about avoiding guys who have a lot to offer. We are talking about should you avoiding hot/hot guys.
If you think I'm going to say outright that relatives are hot/hot guys you're asking too much of me...

They're also educated and successful. They're not jerks. They don't play with women's hearts. They don't only date women who are better looking than they are. Some do have much younger wives, but some don't.
 
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Okay, seriously, is HOT/HOT an actual term, or did we just make it up for this thread? Inquiring minds want to know.
 
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nick222 wrote :
Okay, seriously, is HOT/HOT an actual term, or did we just make it up for this thread? Inquiring minds want to know.
Yea with that many "Hots" I'd be lucky to pull off a solid 5 with this group.. LOL
 
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As for me and my pursuits, I'm sticking with the hot women.

Appearance has little to do with all of the other characteristics one may be interested in. IOW, women of all appearances can have bad attitudes and be obnoxious, rude, denigrating, etc. Likewise, women of all appearances can be kind, affectionate, faithful, giving, humble, etc. Appearance is a non-factor in character.

My advice, and it applies to all people, is watch out for someone with low self esteem as this deficit leads to a myriad of relationship troubles and is often too difficult to overcome resulting in termination of what might otherwise be a good relationship. I'm sure everyone has their own worst thing to watch out for; that's mine.
 
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