suzyque is offline suzyque Post #31  April 30,2011, 8:40pm
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A few years ago, when I was 42, I had a 22 year old after me big time. For sex, yes, but he was also talking marriage and babies. He had big plans. It was so hard to let him down as he was such a great guy. But I just kept picturing him at 40 and me at 60 and how odd that would be.

Looking back, while I think he was very attracted to me, I think the real issue was he was having trouble attracting gals his own age. They were rejecting him and he felt safer and more confident with my "motherly" ways! By the way...the sex thing never happened!
 
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SEX? I think its the stupid cougar thing.
Cougars. I've always had a thing for 1967-68 Mustangs myself.

It could be as I said in another post, it's taking longer for people to grow up! A young guy tired of younger women who are silly and immature might find an older, wiser woman attractive.

(watch out for moochers looking for a "gravy train" though!)
 
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dmi is offline dmi Post #33  April 30,2011, 9:11pm
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ISO older woman with a steady income who will feed, clothe, and house me while I sit around playing video games all day.
 
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livenlearn is offline livenlearn Post #34  April 30,2011, 9:13pm
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OmahaJoe wrote :
Cougars. I've always had a thing for 1967-68 Mustangs myself.

It could be as I said in another post, it's taking longer for people to grow up! A young guy tired of younger women who are silly and immature might find an older, wiser woman attractive.

(watch out for moochers looking for a "gravy train" though!)

My first car was a 71 mustang. Bought it for $450.

Sorry you didnt like them.

I think these youngins are thinking a lot of women are running around with their hormones leading the way.

Although, have you noticed how immature our own politicians are acting? Its not kids who wont grow up.
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ISO older woman with a steady income who will feed, clothe, and house me while I sit around playing video games all day.
And cook and clean do your laundry?
 
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The men I've dated who were much younger were the quiet, intelligent types who weren't interested in the activities of their peers. They also were successful so it wasn't about money. We had a lot in common, much more so than the typical older man - younger girl scenario. I never tried to act younger and he was just himself. No role playing bs.

It always amazes me when young women say they date older men because guys their age are immature. What usually happens is over time they realize how immature that old dude really is and hop right back into their age group a little bit wiser.
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I really think a lot of the men out there on this site want younger women especially when you're approaching 50 or after that. Most of my requests come from the 60 somethings. I'm okay with that, but i think it's interesting that when you are younger those age differences are not as much of an issue. By the way I am very young looking. I do get some requests from my own age group but the ratio to the older males is significant. I'm not comfortable blowing my own horn, but i am very attractive and look years younger. I also think men like a well endowed woman. I happen to be decently endowed but my conservative but tasteful dress in my pictures does not reveal that. Someone told me to show more(not a site member) but i will not dress purposely for that reason in a picture on here. I am a stylish dresser and if the outfit does not happen to reveal that specifically, I will not go out of my way for that purpose; only if it happens naturally.
 
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sony12 is offline sony12 Post #38  May 1,2011, 8:03am
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I have gone out with several older women and it is for the most part just another turn on system. Instead of going out with a young girl for the hot young body you are going out with the older woman for the maturity and experience.

Also when a lady is going out with a younger guy she often seems more into wanting to please the young guy (probably for her own pleasure as well) vs being pleased by the young guy. Where as the young girls go into the situation often automatically assuming that they are the sex object in the situation.

But it is generally just a fantasy type of situation and when I look for an actual dating relationship I always revert back to women around my own age group.
 
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