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marcus_thames is offline marcus_thames Post #1  April 28,2011, 10:17am
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Okay, so to cut to the chase there is this girl who has caught my eye.


Earlier, we have seen each other around the gym a few times and make a lot of eye contact and long smiles. And then at other points I will be out running/ riding my bike and I will pass her on the path sometimes as she is out running as well and we do the eye contact and long eye contact then as well.


As I said, this was the stuff that happened over the last few weeks and then on Monday this week at the gym, we kept looking at each other, and giving big smiles to one other.


And then yesterday at the gym, I used one of the water fountains after her, and said excuse me to her as I stepped up and she got a really big smile on her face, and started giggling.

A bit later we made eye contact some more and then I made my way over to her, said hi, and started a really good conversation. She was really fun and interesing to talk to and had a big smile on her face most of the time, and did a good amount of laughing/ giggling.

After a bit of time, I went off to do other workouts but then later as she was leaving the gym we happened to meet up in the doorway (I was on my way in the room, she was going out) and she had a big smile again, blushed and started giggling, and looked down.

Having been through this, I must say that I do feel good about this situation and next time, after some more talking, I plan to ask her out. (Since coffee is a bit on the generic side and since we both pretty active, I thought I would suggest going for a run or bike ride and then getting some lunch.)


I must admit that another factor involved in that I am big sports fan and I have been watching a lot of NBA playoffs and one thing that really stands out to me is how well they play in the last minute of a close game, the resolve the players have, and it occured to me that I can have the same sort of attitude in this situation, as far as talking and asking her out. It sure beats any alternative such as looking back in, oh, ten years and really wishing I asked her out.
 
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I think she giggles too much

lol- just do it already- it sounds like she is a little shy, but trying to give you all the signs that she's interested... so...do...it
 
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jme21 is offline jme21 Post #3  April 28,2011, 12:05pm
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Seems like your mind is made up and you already know what you should do, you don't need any further validation from us...we can't do it for you.
 
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She sounds rather young to be giggling so much. *rolling my eyes*

How old are you and she (approximately) if you don't mind me asking?
 
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Obviously, you should ask her out. I don't think signs get much clearer than that.
 
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Whats with all the giggling, are ya'll about 12 years old

Step up and ask her out already.
 
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Hi,

We are both college age, it is a college gym.


As I mentioned, she giggled when we were near each other by water fountain, when we passed as I was on my into a room/ she was on her way out, and then when we were talking, and I did make some good natured jokes about things during our conversation.

I have to admit, and not to sound at all 'cocky' or anything, that it seems to me her giggling and smiling is some flirting and indicator of some interest. Again,just to be clear and understood I am not being 'cocky' in saying that at all, but just by looking at the situation and her behavior thats what it seems to be to me.

And as I mentioned I am in college and I meet a lot of people, women everyday and, not to be rude or speak ill of anyone but some of the those woman seem kind of glum and prententious to me while other are really into jersey shore and lady gaga and stuff like that. So with that in mind and all, I much, much prefer the type of woman who is intelligent but knows how to have fun, and does giggle, each and every time.
 
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They already told you.... all systems go. Better ask her for her number. Once you do call, and don't take too long, don't let more than a week go by between the first call and the first date. Once a week goes by her interest will start to wane.
 
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Ask her out.....if not give me her info and ill ask her out....
 
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szgorzelski wrote :
They already told you.... all systems go. Better ask her for her number. Once you do call, and don't take too long, don't let more than a week go by between the first call and the first date. Once a week goes by her interest will start to wane.
Nice! Two days would do!... just between the lunges and the treadmill!
 
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