YearoftheCat is offline YearoftheCat Post #11  April 2,2011, 3:49pm
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All these posts are good insights. I think my main issue is, I do over analyze things and I have been single for so LONG i am afraid of letting go.
 
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LovelyLinda04 is offline LovelyLinda04 Post #12  April 2,2011, 4:21pm

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YearoftheCat wrote :
All these posts are good insights. I think my main issue is, I do over analyze things and I have been single for so LONG i am afraid of letting go.
Now that you identified one of your major problems which is called a kink in your decision making process!
How do you resolve the problem?
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maffif is offline maffif Post #13  April 2,2011, 4:26pm
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I would suggest meeting and getting to know someone and not relying completely on their profile unless there is an obvious deal breaker.

I have clicked with someone I thought I had nothing in common with and we have a great time together. And the opposite has happened where I had nothing in common with someone that I thought was a good match for me. You just never know until you meet someone.
 
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I would suggest meeting and getting to know someone and not relying completely on their profile unless there is an obvious deal breaker.
I completely agree. Worse thing that happens is you go on a date with someone friendly who you just don't click with. Maybe you make a new friend out of it. In the very least, it's experience, and I've found that personally, going on some dates that didn't end up working out, though it could be disappointing when I'd hoped they would, wound up making me more confident about my ability to date.

Or, perhaps you meet and find out that you'd like to get to know each other better, and then go from there.

I'm not saying that you should go out with every Tom, Dick, and Harry who so much as glances your direction, but if you're intrigued enough by this person to be moving to the communication stage, what do you have to lose?
 
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richey is offline richey Post #15  April 4,2011, 6:56pm
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Yeah... better approach is to look and say "here are the ways it could work" rather then "here are the ways that it won't work"....

If you go through all stages and meet and it fails ~ you're still back and no worse for it ~ than if you stopped it cold right here. right?

So why not go through with it and see?

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