confused about the 'pay' factor


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suzyque is offline suzyque Post #11  April 1,2011, 8:15pm
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All the first dates I've been on have been paid by the man without even any "who's paying" discussion. It's the dates after that where it gets a bit confusing. It's nice to offer to pay now and again. Not in a wishy-washy way but "I'm going to get it this time" and pull out your card.
 
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All the first dates I've been on have been paid by the man without even any "who's paying" discussion. It's the dates after that where it gets a bit confusing. It's nice to offer to pay now and again. Not in a wishy-washy way but "I'm going to get it this time" and pull out your card.
thanks, good advice. At this point I think I'd feel comfortable with doing that. and I haven't had a problem with this while I'm dating the guy. its when I'm telling him its not going to work out, he gets angry and tells me I should have paid while we were dating. Like they just want something to blame on me. I even pointed that out to the last guy, but I paid here, here and here and he said, well besides that. maybe these men are just mad I'm breaking up with them after 3 or 4 weeks. I dunno. I'm just confused.
 
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