3 dates in 3months????


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savman is offline savman Post #11  March 31,2011, 4:20pm
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Nanette, in the entire history of the world has a woman ever made a dating mistake? Or is every single problem the mans fault?
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It is indeed appropriate for the woman to extend an invitation for a date to a guy.

Also it could be that part of his slowness is his reluctance to date someone with whom he works. And I would be very careful sending notes to one another in interoffice mail.
 
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Thank you for your replies...
No sex...just dates...I probably could have gone that route on date 3 but chose not to since there was so much time in between...He does stay in touch with smail mail....He is an old fashioned kinda guy overall...I have known him for 25 years and he is a busy guy...He has a second job...I dont think he is dating anyone else...but who knows?

I know one of our students had to teach him how to text....lol So I know he doesnt do that...he is really one of those people that turn their phone off completely...

After date 3 he was very excited about seeing me again....and I have recieved snail mail from him thanking me for a great time and how glad he was that I had a good time as well...Something changed between us because we had that lQQk you know the one I am talking about....and just kinda clicked into romantic from there...he told me he was very happy...

so I gave him a text last night...quick one asking what he thought about something silly...something I know he would respond to when he gets a chance...so far no text back but he doesnt do that much either...I guess I have to wait it out...

and when I do see him again ask him to step it up......something like...we gottta get into more than once a month...or something...
 
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a mans "fault"?

i love the fact that men know what they want and go after it. i trust them to honor that, and i believe they do. not only is that not thinking a man is at fault, its viewing him with the highest regard.
 
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I was going to get that book on here they advertise by rori reye anyone else ever get that stuff? Since I dont know anything about dating in these times I thought it might be worth it...but I dont want to waste my money either!
 
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pattycakexoxo wrote :
The last date we had changed the way I felt about him
Think this is the main reason for the slow pace up to this point.
 
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dmi wrote :
Think this is the main reason for the slow pace up to this point.
I could agree to that we have been collegues for 25 years..he even was friendly with my late husband at different functions...He could be feeling me out also...but I think after this last date things should change...but I dont see that happening...I guess time will tell....
 
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