Are You Accidentally Sabotaging Your Love Life?

Are You Accidentally Sabotaging Your Love Life?

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harmonicsexplorer is offline harmonicsexplorer Post #11  March 31,2011, 8:45pm
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PreachersSon wrote :
Am I the only one who thinks this sounds like psychological mumbo jumbo?
Here's the deal:
Did the 'two of you' like each other when you parted ways?
What were the circumstances for parting ways? Reasons are not necessarily with any overt negativity, it could be a matter of different particular values or goals, but which cause no overt conflict, because there's not an obsession with each other.
If overt negativity occurs and lingers, that indicates a lack of development with either or both of the people, or poor chemistry.
Personality chemistry is perhaps the most important thing, though it's not everything of course.
Levity is important, not 'takinging things to seriously'.
Abundance is the perspective to have, scarcity is not.
So, that means there's not an overt desire to hook up again.
You appreciate the 'whole person'.
Psychological Mumbo jumbo? Hardly, I live it, though I realize it's foreign to most people,....hence the thoughts of 'psychological mumbo jumbo'.
If you're not 'there' it's hard to imagine. I know, I've been there too.
I evolved, with effort and experience, and I wish I was 'here' when I was 12, - I would've had a much better life, though it's been good in many ways.
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