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lizzy1999 wrote :
Hi everyone,
Yeah, so if you have read my other posts, you might find this kind of funny. So I've been on 5 dates with one guy and I like him a lot. In fact, I sorta just stopped browsing my dating sites. However, before I got involved with him, I was communicating with a guy on eH and we agreed to meet. I'm supposed to meet him tomorrow, but now I don't want to so much. I feel like I should though and just keep options open, especially since I told the first guy it was too fast to be exclusive back on date 3. Sigh - they didn't say dating was easy. I should probably meet him?
Why meet the other guy, if you don't want to so much? Do you honestly think this guy would have much of a chance with you? Do you think you would give him as much of a shot as you would with the other guy you went out with 5 times?

The thing about multi-dating is that if you are going to use this as an option, then do so. Multi-date which means that you go out with a few people at a time and based on the data given from your dates, made a decision on who is best suited for you. If you are more of a one guy type of person, then fine. Just don't string other folks along and waste their time.

In all, I hope whatever decision you make works out for you.

B.Y.
 
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