LoveSong is offline LoveSong Post #51  February 17,2011, 4:16pm
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Since the OP specifically said "making out for a while" and not just simply a kiss (which is what most of these posts have been referring to)...
I'm going to share my thoughts...

And that is that I honestly don't think there is a black and white answer...

Depends on how genuine they seem about everything else, like conversation.
 
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LISYFORTUNATE2 is offline LISYFORTUNATE2 Post #52  February 22,2011, 7:33am
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YOU KNOW WHAT WAITING IS NOT A BAD THING WHEN WE WAIT BEFORE WE GET INTIMATE WE GET TO REALLY KNOW THE PERSON ,WHEN SOMEONE KEEPS THEMSELVES I BELIEVE IT SHOWS COMMITMENT AND FAITHFULNESS AND ISN'T THAT WHAT WE ALL WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP OR DO WE ONLY WANT TO HAVE "FUN"
 
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OK, I may be alone here but I do not kiss on a first date, much less make out. Now that I'm older (mid-40s), I'd rather save any physical affection - except for a hug and light touching on the arm and back - for after a couple of dates, once I sense that there is potential for a longer-term relationship. So how do I show I'm interested in her at the end of the first date? Gee, I always found telling her I enjoyed being with her that evening, and I'd like to see her again works well.

I guess I just found that first kiss is nicer for both of us if it's not just a routine part of the first date...especially when you surprise her with it later on!
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At any age i believe that kissing on the first date is a no, no. Even as far as the third date. I think if they are interested in you they will wait and respect how you feel about it. Maybe a kiss on the cheek. But, why would you want to kiss someone you don't know. Kisses are passionate its something shared of you. Worth the wait.
 
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It's not a problem at all if it's someone you want to see more of.
 
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No way to generalize about this....you have to go with what feels right in the moment!
 
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kathanne wrote :
Is making out for a while on a first date a bad signal?
Not at all. The important thing is to respect what the other person wants, and not to push too hard. If both of you want to kiss, then it's perfectly normal and natural. If you listen to what your date is telling you (both unspoken and spoken - body language is a wonderful thing!) then it will be great. Sometimes it seems more awkward at the end of a great date not to kiss! After all, it's a kiss, not a contract.

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If a woman does not kiss me on the fist date, I conclude she is not interested, and I never call her again.
 
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