Babily is offline Babily Post #1  December 25,2010, 10:19pm
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If the girl always texts/calls first, would you say the guy is interested? If the girl doesnt call for days, he doesnt call at all, but is always glad to chat with the girl when she calls! Am I wasting my time here?
 
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What?
 
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Yeah I'd say you're wasting your time. From a guy's point of view it seems like you're just cool enough to chat with when ever you call but not quite cool enough to make him want to take the initiative and give you a call or ask you out. If it were me - I'd just move on from this guy. It's unlikely he'll get any better.
 
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My philosophy and I know I have said this before, I will call a guy once, maybe twice, if he doesnt respond I then delete his number from my phone immediately. Im talking about guys I dont know yet that give me their number in a bar or something. if its someone I was already seeing maybe different, but yeah theres an expression flogging a dead horse and this applies here. There are plenty of guys, why waste your time and money??
 
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Babily wrote :
If the girl always texts/calls first, would you say the guy is interested? If the girl doesnt call for days, he doesnt call at all, but is always glad to chat with the girl when she calls! Am I wasting my time here?
He is debating with himself about whether he is going to offer you 'harem rights'. You should find out any day now.
 
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Babily,

For me, unless it's the girl from the transformers films then if after a couple of texts I am still getting no replies, I will delete the number. especially if the girl is the sort who never initiates texting or conversation and always allows me to chase.

So if you are the one initiating contact all the time and aren't always getting replies - he's either just not that into you or he's seeing other people. What I would assume is that the level if interest means you aren't going to be having a relationship with this person so move on.
 
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IMO a relationship should be a shared experience in everything. If he is not initiating anything then he is not holding up his end of trying to build a relationship. In other words you are wasting your time.
 
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+1 for "yes.. you are wasting your time."
 
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