Ingytravel is offline Ingytravel Post #21  November 26,2010, 3:54pm
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I think the critical issue is not the interest in her photos, but the statement her match made about "testing her."

Either this is a "test," or it's a backpedal - and either is a lie.

The danger is not his interest in the photos, but that he is lying.
I guess I see her as doing the same thing...she is teasing/testing him...but then doesn't like his response...he's probably confused on what type of girl she is....No to sex...but will "show you the real thing" .sending flirty pictures to him......it seems that she is sending off mixed signals as well....
 
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He knows I'm not sleeping with him at the moment, and he respects that, we talked about that the night I stayed over. It just took me off guard to hear him say, "I'm testing you"....
 
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I guess I see her as doing the same thing...she is teasing/testing him...but then doesn't like his response...he's probably confused on what type of girl she is....No to sex...but will "show you the real thing" .sending flirty pictures to him......it seems that she is sending off mixed signals as well....

Good point.

I hadn't picked up on that.
 
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It may come across as mixed signals, I need to talk to him about it, thanks guys...I'm gonna delete so I don't keep it so close on my mind
 
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He knows I'm not sleeping with him at the moment, and he respects that, we talked about that the night I stayed over. It just took me off guard to hear him say, "I'm testing you"....

But aren't you 'testing' him as well....sleeping with him/staying the night...but not having sex....sending him flirty photos and teasing him with saying there is 'more'....

I am truly not judging...just making a point that I think the guy is probably very confused on what you are all about sending him lots of mixed signals...
 
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And I don't want him to be confused or led him so I need to talk to him, like that's hit me really hard with your advice just now, Ingy. Thank You!
 
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And I don't want him to be confused or led him so I need to talk to him, like that's hit me really hard with your advice just now, Ingy. Thank You!
I think talking to him is a great idea..hope it goes well
 
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I guess that at some point today there was an actual original post that got this thread started
 
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