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Wonderwoman402 is offline Wonderwoman402 Post #11  November 25,2010, 10:29am
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Maybe true, but if that was the case, why have another guy jump right into her bed every weekend while the young kid is sleeping in the next room?

See how it doesn't make sense in this case?
A woman who would do this is not a good mother and you are better off without her.
 
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Here's the ironic thing. The next day she apologized after that emotional breakdown and said I really want to work on our relationship. You've been nothing but good to me and my life. But, you can leave if you want to. I would not hold it against you.

I said I wanted to stay and we tried, but again, it was back to her normal self and then I left. It was hard, as I did not want to leave, but I knew it just was not working anymore. The shacking up with this other guy, which she's still doing, just hurts. Here's the kicker, he's also having sexual relations with other women. He's known around our circle as a player. Yet, that is what she sticks with. I also ran into her at A & P, and she said I am so over you. She said I wish I never met or went out with you. All good things from her.

No, not ironic. Just a continuation of the passive-aggressive "don't want to be the bad guy" breakup.

Again, when it's done... let it be done. What she is doing now has NO bearing on you whatsoever. It may be revealing more of her true character, and so you should be glad she is no longer in your life. But she could be having an or gy every night of the week and it would still have NOTHING to do with your life whatsoever. Try to avoid any contact or any news of her... you will be better off for it.
 
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cp30 is offline cp30 Post #13  November 25,2010, 11:26am

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sounds to me like you do fall for the same type of women......comes on a little strong, sweet, probably sexual. It's a bit flattering?

Things move quick, no?

These are the types of women that get into relationships quickly and without thinking much. That's what you are falling for. The kids are a symptom not an indicator.
 
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sounds to me like you do fall for the same type of women......comes on a little strong, sweet, probably sexual. It's a bit flattering?

Things move quick, no?

These are the types of women that get into relationships quickly and without thinking much. That's what you are falling for. The kids are a symptom not an indicator.
Yeah, kids do tend to happen when one doesn't think too much and just jump into things. lol
 
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cp30 wrote :
sounds to me like you do fall for the same type of women......comes on a little strong, sweet, probably sexual. It's a bit flattering?

Things move quick, no?

These are the types of women that get into relationships quickly and without thinking much. That's what you are falling for. The kids are a symptom not an indicator.
Flattering? No. Quick, I do not think it was that quick. The relationship lasted several months. I had, in the past, gone into relationships with an open mind and clean slate. Not holding bad decisions and indiscretions against a woman. Perhaps, I need to change that method. She also had this rare medical condition that made her, well change. Not sure if that was the main reason, but as soon as the lack of respect came, I started to plan my exit strategy. I am not a doormat. While, I understand life throws us all curve balls, don't take it out on me. You need to vent, hey, no problem. But, after consistent down trotting, I cannot take it more than a few weeks. I just find it real interesting that she was not able to be there for me in the relationship, but able to move on in record time and have another guy sleeping with her so fast. I've never seen or heard of that except in the movies.
 
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