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churumbeque is offline churumbeque Post #1  October 24,2010, 2:37pm
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I ran into an old aquantance and he invited me to dinner spur of the moment. He had seemed to have a little to much to drink beforehand. We sat a the bar at a restaurant and out of the blue he justs grabs my chest and said, yep there real. What is with people? I am not a prude but I was offended. He was a nice looking professional man. Then he kinda started talking baby talk asking me for a kiss-kiss. Then he started begging for a kiss kiss. He started to look so unattractive and he got shorter and shorter. He asked for my number which I did not give him. It makes me appreciate being single.
 
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WOW...I would have probably thrown water at him...LOL...but seriously...I definitely would have gotten up and left..period...that is completely inexcusable behavior..

If this is someone you knew before? Has he ever exhibited problems with drinking or boundary issues before? Doesn't sound like a person I would even be associating with...

The main thing is to not lump this jerk into all other men..Most guys out there are kind, caring, and polite...just laugh about it...and move on...
 
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WOW.

seriously, I can't believe you stayed after he grabbed you. i would have stabbed him with a fork. what is wrong with him?

what a jerk. *shakes head
 
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You are a kinder woman than I am.

But, as Ingy wisely said, the actions of one (or even many) do not indicate the actions of all.

Wipe the blood off your fork and cross him off your list of acquaintances.
 
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churumbeque wrote :
He was a nice looking professional man.
Obviously. VERY professional. Mammologist or Plastic Surgeon? () Oh wait, a Wall-Streeter? Can't judge a book by its cover any more, darn-it!

churumbeque wrote :
It makes me appreciate being single.
Well, when you hang-out with people like him, who wouldn't. Couldn't be your choice of company though, could it? Nah! Maybe try some amateurs instead.
Last edited by Co6aka; October 24,2010 at 2:56pm. Reason: PS- Yeah, shoulda stabbed him.
 
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Wow.
 
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scarlet13 wrote :
i would have stabbed him with a fork. what is wrong with him?
Yeah, that... ^
 
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Ingytravel wrote :
WOW...I would have probably thrown water at him...LOL...but seriously...I definitely would have gotten up and left..period...that is completely inexcusable behavior..

If this is someone you knew before? Has he ever exhibited problems with drinking or boundary issues before? Doesn't sound like a person I would even be associating with...
I only knew him through work. He called on me as a salesrep so had I had never seen him other than during the day. He had been married for 25 yrs and recently divorced. I don't think they know how to be single after 25 yrs of being married.
When I think about it other men have grabbed me or even people I do not know. Are b**bs really that facinating to men.
I did tell him that was rude and taht I wouldn't be grabbing his crotch but I did not use such a polite word. I did leave shortly after that.
 
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This is not because he doesn't know how to be single. It is because he doesn't know that people are not to be treated as objects.
 
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Wow. Just Wow.

I would have given him a piece of my mind and left, I think! I would hope I'd have had the presence of mind to inflict pain in some way (a kick to his shin, perhaps?) before getting up, but since I wouldn't expect that sort of behavior at dinner, I'm not sure I would have thought of that before I was out of range.

Wow.

Thankfully, 99.9% of the guys you will date are NOT like that!!!
 
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