Three Surprising Ways To Help A Man Fall In Love

Three Surprising Ways To Help A Man Fall In Love

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SimplyHislove is offline SimplyHislove Post #1  October 19,2010, 11:06pm
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I COMPLETELY agree with this! I was like this for the first month of a relationship, which is what attracted him, but allowed the emotions of it all to take over, and it wasnt good. So I learned all this the HARD way. I strongly believe if I had continued walking in believing that I deserved nothing less and stood in that decision, it wouldnt have gotten as bad as it did. As soon as  you quit believeing you deserve the best of the best, your self-esteem goes down, and when your self-esteem goes down, you are no longer as happy as you once were. So each of these are link, going hand in hand to help make you the best partner for a man.  I pray that whoever reads this, that you may learn from this and not the hard way. Your heart is a very precious, wonderful, beautiful jewel that is to be protected. Learn who you, believe you're the best, walk in confidence, and never let that go... and someday a man will be worthy of your precious heart, and you of his heart.
 
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Let me tell ya...three extremely, absolutely, ridiculously surprising things that will make a man fall in love (but yet women keep spending $19.95 on books on how to make men fall in love):

1. Don't be high maintenance (yes this will include being a princess, not initiating calls, etc..etc)
2. Be nice to him
3. Actually that's it....just two would make you stand out from the average women population lol (but it will help a lot if you're cute too).

OK now who wants to pay me $19.95 for my E-book?
 
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PY_2 wrote :
Let me tell ya...three extremely, absolutely, ridiculously surprising things that will make a man fall in love (but yet women keep spending $19.95 on books on how to make men fall in love):

1. Don't be high maintenance (yes this will include being a princess, not initiating calls, etc..etc)
2. Be nice to him
3. Actually that's it....just two would make you stand out from the average women population lol (but it will help a lot if you're cute too).

OK now who wants to pay me $19.95 for my E-book?
I admit myself to be a little high maintenance, enjoying being protected or pampered or whatever you call it, but I am not only very appreciative, but also VERY sweet to him, too, and admire him like the hottest guy in the world. That makes a sweet couple, which may be annoying to others' eyes.
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PY_2 wrote :
Let me tell ya...three extremely, absolutely, ridiculously surprising things that will make a man fall in love (but yet women keep spending $19.95 on books on how to make men fall in love):

1. Don't be high maintenance (yes this will include being a princess, not initiating calls, etc..etc)
2. Be nice to him
3. Actually that's it....just two would make you stand out from the average women population lol (but it will help a lot if you're cute too).

OK now who wants to pay me $19.95 for my E-book?

Hmmmmmmm....I got number one hands down!

I pamper myself, and never have a problem "initiating/calls, etc...etc"
I don't like it when a man buys me gifts/flowers/candy during the dating/GTKY period, because I can be hard to please. I don't like flowers (most flowers I am allergic to), and I hate any and all things associated with chocolate and sweets (never eat dessert!)...and I don't wear a lot of jewelry....and the jewelry I do wear tends to be heirlooms given to me by my mom, and I like the Irish celtic stuff (no man is ever gonna get my taste in jewelry, cause I certainly don't 'look' Irish!...lol)

... number 2????...I have my good days and bad days...but I'm working on it....
 
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The title of this article seemed to insinuate that men somehow need "help" falling in love....and we women need a plan to get them there...

But once I read it, I could see that this article is really about what women should do to set themselves up for the right man for them.

Mostly just common sense...but still sounds like a 'plan' to me...and I don't do well with plans cause I'm always forgetting what the 'plan' is/was...

I guess it is as SimplyHisLove states: Just be yourself and relax...
 
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Ignoring the absurd title of the article, the points are actually highly applicable to all people - men and women alike. Losing yourself in a relationship is not a gender specific issue.
 
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PY_2 wrote :
Let me tell ya...three extremely, absolutely, ridiculously surprising things that will make a man fall in love (but yet women keep spending $19.95 on books on how to make men fall in love):

1. Don't be high maintenance (yes this will include being a princess, not initiating calls, etc..etc)
2. Be nice to him
3. Actually that's it....just two would make you stand out from the average women population lol (but it will help a lot if you're cute too).
Preach it, bro.

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OK now who wants to pay me $19.95 for my E-book?
too simple of an explanation..no one would buy it..
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 is offline Gr8Guyn2008 Post #8  October 20,2010, 7:37am
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I'm crippled by the fear That I've fallen too far to love

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I'm thinking that it may help if you are French
 
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Frankly, none of these would "make me fall in love" .
This sounds like someone on a self-improvement , self-help plan.
Here's what actually works :
1)Physical attraction
2) Intellectual attraction
3)Enjoying being with them.

If all their time is spent on self improvement, self gratification and wishing for Mr. Man-of -my dreams, they are reading too many of these books.

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BELIEVE THAT YOU DESERVE NOTHING LESS THAN YOU DESERVE

WORK ON RAISING YOUR SELF ESTEEM EVERY DAY

MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY FIRST
 
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #10  October 20,2010, 9:23am
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This lost me after seeing that first "gem" of advice...

But not settling for anything less only pushes you to the opposite extreme where you will reject someone for the silly reasons and look for fault instead of strengths.
 
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