barista28 is offline barista28 Post #1  October 18,2010, 8:35pm
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It would come across to me as chit chat on a break with a co-worker. I don't see anything here that seems suggestive of romantic interest -- is there more than what you have said?
 
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Yes, it's impossible to tell from this if he brought up dating because it's a normal topic (which it is) or because he was trying to "scope you out" (find out if you are single).

If you like him, you should flirt with him. Smile, touch his arm, ask him about his weekend plans, whatever. Ask him out if you're feeling brave.

Sorry I couldn't help you more--definitely need more info than this!
 
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chimerical wrote :
Yes, it's impossible to tell from this if he brought up dating because it's a normal topic (which it is) or because he was trying to "scope you out" (find out if you are single).

If you like him, you should flirt with him. Smile, touch his arm, ask him about his weekend plans, whatever. Ask him out if you're feeling brave.

Sorry I couldn't help you more--definitely need more info than this!
Great points.

It is better to take the leap of faith then to wonder. You may get hurt (but doubtful); a lifetime of happiness is worth a few emotional cuts and bruises IMHO--smile.

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How about don't mess with your co-workers..... It's impossible to tell if he is interested in you or just being friendly, but if I were you, I'd think long and hard about your job security if the company frowns on workplace romances.
 
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I agree with everybody! lol. Find out what your company's policy is on workplace relationships first, and if there are restrictions, consider how much your job matters to you.

Then if you want to go forward, start flirting a bit (during breaks, not while working).

Oh and bear in mind that the feeling of having known someone forever is great, and means something (you're "clicking" well), but it doesn't actually mean you've known him forever -- you've known him just a short time. Find out who he is, don't leap to assumptions.

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