He disappeared! What should I do?

Hi everyone,

I'm new to the boards and am hoping can get some advice from some of you. I was matched with a guy a couple of months ago, and we hit it off really well. We moved quickly through all the eharmony communication steps and started emailing. Over the course of our messages, we discovered that we have just about everything in common - same favorite music, movies, etc. That's never happened with one of my matches before (let alone someone I've met in the 'real world'), so I was super excited to finally meet the guy and see where things went. We exchanged emails almost every day for a couple of weeks before he asked me for a date, and I responded that I'd love it. I gave him my phone number and full name so he could find me on facebook. He added me as a friend, then I didn't hear anything more from him. I waited a few days and sent him a message just asking how he'd been and whether he still wanted to go out. I was used to his quick responses, so I thought it was weird that I hadn't heard from him within a couple days. Now it's been a week since that second message and still nothing. I'm pretty confused since we got along really well...I wonder if he may have seen something on my facebook that he didn't like, but there's nothing bad on there. He's still my friend on the site...if he's no longer interested, why wouldn't he delete me? What's the deal with him? I know others have had this same general problem.

Here's where I need the most advice: I know I should probably just let the whole thing go, but it's really hard since I got my hopes up so much with this guy. Part of me wants to send him another message and ask him to tell me if he isn't interested anymore. That way at least I'll stop hoping that maybe he'll eventually get back to me and I can put the whole thing to rest for good. Is this a bad idea?

if you were i dont think you would even be here asking this question