Need advice on new prospect WHO SEEMS LIKE A JERK

I wanted out he got me to his place instead of going out.
He thinks dating around is cool
We have a date Friday-any advice.

1. Went on a date.
2. I wanted out he got me to his place instead of going out. I should have stood my ground I know.
3. He kissed me within 15 minutes. I told him kindly I wasn't there for that and tried to keep talking, he would talk a bit and then start with the kissing and feeling.
4. I gave up, I tried to say chill and then got caught up and didn't give in completely but close.
5. I left in a hurry and explained the next day I felt awkward about it because I said I had not wanted to and explained I understood there may have been mixed signals but next time he needed to really listen. He said I needed to stand my ground and that me bringing it up is "odd." I think that's kinda rude.
6.He thinks dating around is cool and when I said I date one at a time he calmly freaked and said hey we aren't in a relationship and if you wanna spook a guy tell him what you just told me. I've never known anyone to not date just one at a time. HELP! He is 43 I'm 35 I've met men more gentlemanly than him and I expected the opposite. He is very upstanding but not when he's alone I suppose? WHAT GIVES?!
6. We have a date Friday-any advice.

\And you are blaming the guy for all of this? I'm sorry...but you need to learn how to say no...if that's truly what you mean...and set proper boundaries for yourself....Obviously you wanted to have sex with this man and stay the night, or else you wouldn't have agreed to anything beyond #2 on your list...Please don't confuse the issue of actually being 'taken against your will' and playing coy and wishy washy to get a guy to chase after you...
As and adult woman..you can make any choices you want...but don't pretend that some guy is a jerk because you are pretending to say 'no' and then sleeping with him voluntarily...A true jerk..is someone who advances on you when you absolutely say no...and if he goes any further..you leave the house or call 911...

1. Went on a date.
2. I wanted out he got me to his place instead of going out. I should have stood my ground I know.
3. He kissed me within 15 minutes. I told him kindly I wasn't there for that and tried to keep talking, he would talk a bit and then start with the kissing and feeling.
4. I gave up, I tried to say chill and then got caught up and didn't give in completely but close.
5. I left in a hurry and explained the next day I felt awkward about it because I said I had not wanted to and explained I understood there may have been mixed signals but next time he needed to really listen. He said I needed to stand my ground and that me bringing it up is "odd." I think that's kinda rude.
6.He thinks dating around is cool and when I said I date one at a time he calmly freaked and said hey we aren't in a relationship and if you wanna spook a guy tell him what you just told me. I've never known anyone to not date just one at a time. HELP! He is 43 I'm 35 I've met men more gentlemanly than him and I expected the opposite. He is very upstanding but not when he's alone I suppose? WHAT GIVES?!
6. We have a date Friday-any advice.

1. Went on a date.
2. I wanted out he got me to his place instead of going out. I should have stood my ground I know.
3. He kissed me within 15 minutes. I told him kindly I wasn't there for that and tried to keep talking, he would talk a bit and then start with the kissing and feeling.
4. I gave up, I tried to say chill and then got caught up and didn't give in completely but close.
5. I left in a hurry and explained the next day I felt awkward about it because I said I had not wanted to and explained I understood there may have been mixed signals but next time he needed to really listen. He said I needed to stand my ground and that me bringing it up is "odd." I think that's kinda rude.
6.He thinks dating around is cool and when I said I date one at a time he calmly freaked and said hey we aren't in a relationship and if you wanna spook a guy tell him what you just told me. I've never known anyone to not date just one at a time. HELP! He is 43 I'm 35 I've met men more gentlemanly than him and I expected the opposite. He is very upstanding but not when he's alone I suppose? WHAT GIVES?!
6. We have a date Friday-any advice.