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I was in a workshop at my job for a few days and casually spoke to a guy in the class. We ended up grabbing some lunch yesterday and had a good conversation. He seems like a nice guy.

A few of us were talking about food during one of the breaks and he mentioned he makes good dessert. He said he would make some and bring it in for everyone, and he should get everyone's email. When I was leaving the workshop, he was out in the hallway and gave me his number. He said it was about him making some dessert, but he told me it was his work number, work email, personal email, and cell.

I don't want to read too much into it, but he didn't give anyone else his personal contact info. I also think he would be a good friend, but I'm not sure what he's thinking about it.

Is this just an innocent case of interoffice dessert sharing, or is there some interest?
 
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Yes.
 
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astro42 wrote :
Yes.
Yes to which one? lol
 
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He's interested. No question.
 
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Hmm..I am on the fence..

Did he ask you for your email? If yes, then I would wait to see if he emails to say hi and ask you to get coffee/lunch sometime..

If he only gave you his info..then I don't think he is really interested...more of a 'if we hung out that would be ok if she called me' kind of thing..

Most guys are going to ask for your info and talk in conversation about doing something with you...as in, hinting about..not just making desserts for everyone...

But..I always like to be wrong on the boards since that would me a definite yes and you end up going out
 
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Ingytravel wrote :
Hmm..I am on the fence..

Did he ask you for your email? If yes, then I would wait to see if he emails to say hi and ask you to get coffee/lunch sometime..

If he only gave you his info..then I don't think he is really interested...more of a 'if we hung out that would be ok if she called me' kind of thing..

Most guys are going to ask for your info and talk in conversation about doing something with you...as in, hinting about..not just making desserts for everyone...

But..I always like to be wrong on the boards since that would me a definite yes and you end up going out
It was weird because he already had his info all written out and was kind of lingering outside of the room like he was waiting for me to come out (I could be wrong about that, but it was odd to me).

I'm sure I'm overthinking this but I just wanted to get a gut reaction from a few other people.
 
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Did he ask for your email?
 
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You are over thinking this already.
 
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Ingytravel wrote :
If he only gave you his info..then I don't think he is really interested...more of a 'if we hung out that would be ok if she called me' kind of thing..

Most guys are going to ask for your info and talk in conversation about doing something with you...as in, hinting about..not just making desserts for everyone...

I don't think so.

For my peer group, it does seem common to give the information to the female, not ask for it.

This is because the ubiquity of call ID, and many women like men not to have their number.

Also, guys know that many women give out numbers and then never answer the phone or return the call.

In any case, if the OP is interested she will do no harm by contacting him.
 
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