Stuck texting...

I had a match initiate contact with me, which is always nice because it means that there's something about me that they must really be interested in (rather than me sending out the first message and them replying because they think they have to). She's interesting, and I'm interested in her. We exchanged a couple emails, then I asked if she wanted to talk on the phone or text and gave her my number.

Well, now we've been texting for over a month (maybe closer to two). For awhile I was fine just texting because I shouldn't rush into anything because I'm not sure if I'm still caught up, emotionally, a recent long-term relationship. But I've felt pretty confident about my situation the last couple weeks, so I asked if she wanted to meet up (no time/place or whatever specified) and she seemed pretty excited about that.

However, I've asked her when she's available or when she'd like to meet up several times (her schedule is a bit tighter than mine), and I get no response each time. But if I ask her something trivial like "Do you like apples?" I get a response right away.

The last couple of women that I've gone on dates with kind of dodged me. They texted me and acted like they wanted to go out with me, but would cancel on any plans that were made. At least here, I'm not the one initiating contact (learned my lesson there). Starting to think I'm someone's hobby/boredom reducer.

What do I do here? Keep in mind that I'm not to the point where I'm frustrated or mad or anything like that... I find it more funny than anything - at this point.

Fascinating...why not use the phone to actually call the person....you know....that thing works that way too, right?

If some guy was txt'ing me for two months without a phone call, without asking me out, he would be friend zoned. I would lose interest in him right after week one. If he then finally and at long last asked me out.....yeah, there are other priorities now. If you genuinely want to salvage this, then pick up the phone and actually call her up, be assertive, tell her that you really want to meet her, have a plan and a date or two in mind, be specific. In the future don't be so weak and wishy washy - women don't respond to that.

I 100% agree with this one. I also believe you have been "friend zoned". You should always try and initiate at least a quick meet and greet at the start. Coffee or drinks are always good. Keep it short and casual. It is a great way just to see if you are attracted to each other in person and not just on paper.

Keeping it away from that for to long and intrest will be lost. I was dating a girl for a couple of months many moons ago and it never led to anything physical and one day she told me she met someone else and because our relationship was stalling, she was done. Live and learn.