willsucceed is offline willsucceed Post #101  March 31,2008, 3:15pm
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1) Arrogant - almost aggressive about being right

2) Talks about himself constantly -he MIGHT ask me something but shows no genuine interest in the answer, and gets right back toHIMSELF

3)Has an answer/solution/reason/explanation for every single thing or problem on earth

4) Doesn't see the point in being courteous on the road

5)Lusts after a figure 8 passing by and sayson't worry, you know your BRAIN is what I like!! (especially when we know we're not a figure 8 [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-foot-in-mouth.gif[/img]!
 
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1) Arrogant - almost aggressive about being right

2) Talks about himself constantly -he MIGHT ask me something but shows no genuine interest in the answer, and gets right back toHIMSELF

3)Has an answer/solution/reason/explanation for every single thing or problem on earth

4) Doesn't see the point in being courteous on the road

5)Lusts after a figure 8 passing by and sayson't worry, you know your BRAIN is what I like!! (especially when we know we're not a figure 8 [img]library/editor/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-foot-in-mouth.gif[/img])
 
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Maria123,76783 wrote :
I actually had a 55 year old man hang up on me when, after he asked if he could pick me up at my home for our planned (3rd) date, I told him I wanted to get to know him a little better first. He said, "that's ridiculous! Later!" and hung up! I was SHOCKED!!! I've not known anyone past 13 who has done that!
While I agree that hanging up on you was unconscionable, as a man, I have to say that I'd be a little taken aback if a woman and I were planning our third date and she was still so mistrustful that she wouldn't let me pick her up at her place.

Yes, the "he might be a psycho" protocol is absolutely necessary for the first date, and perhaps for the second. Men might not like the fact that in beginning, we are automatically treated as potential rapists/psychotics, but we understand why women do it, and don't begrudge it.

But by the third date, I don't think offering to pick you up was out of line. By making the offer, he was trying to be gallant and considerate. (He might have thought that you'd think he was inconsiderate if he didn't offer to pick you up!)

Your response was to to tell him (in so many words) that even after two full dates (and, assumably, lots of "getting to know you" -type conversation), he was still wearing a "potential rapist/psychotic" label. That's rejection, and it stings.

Did he react completely inappropriately? Yes. And perhaps you demurred because you were subconsciously feeling a red flag from this guy. But still... you certainly paid him no compliment.
 
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Lets see my top 5 would have to be:

1. Uses foul language quite a bit. I am not a saint but cussing every 5 seconds is a problem..

2. Being a pessimistic person.

3. Not having any manners.

4. Not Keeping your word.

5. Trying to be something that you are not.. Be yourself
 
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So I saw a few comments about guys who are too pushy. What do you ladies think is the right time fo a guy to make the next move? I mean in a right manner. I have been in a situation where I waited a bit too long.
 
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Top 5 Turnoffs:1. Poor Boundaries: Frequent leg taps, arm pets, and hand grabs are better left for when you have assessed her comfort level with you.*2. Poor Posture: Body language communicates alot about confidence.*3. Viva le chivalry! Pay the bill, open doors, and sweep her off her feet.4. Wandering eyes: It is natural to look, but not at everything that passes by-no matter the attributes. Make eye contact and learn to be stealth in the oggling.5. Michelob Ultra Connessoieurs: come on...be adventurous.*
 
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scorpiorider,52927 wrote :
Bobber,52700 wrote :
Riding a motorcycle is a dealbreaker? Please explain that one, it's a lot like saying owning a truck is bad.
I ride a beautiful 1200 white Sportster, dealbreaker?amd I am a woman. Humm.. I'd like to know as well. That's like saying, if you play golf or watch football no deal, whatsup with that?
It's not the motorcycle that's the deal breaker. It's the fact that it's prominent in your profile picture and/or text that's a turn off for me. That is making a statement that it's an integral part of your life and I basically have no interest. Same would apply for a sports car or someone who is a sports fanatic. I'm just not into it!
 
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Terizz is offline Terizz Post #108  March 31,2008, 9:13pm
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1. Brings up sex in their first line of questioning. If that is all you are looking for there are plenty of sites dedicated to just that.

2. States that they are not passionate about anything in their life.

3. Asks odd questions or provides really strange answers to the questions that you ask.

4. Dishonesty. I can forgive a cheater, before I can a liar.

5. Is racist, prejudice, or homophobic.
 
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Terizz,77458 wrote :

1. Brings up sex in their first line of questioning. If that is all you are looking for there are plenty of sites dedicated to just that.

2. States that they are not passionate about anything in their life.

3. Asks odd questions or provides really strange answers to the questions that you ask.

4. Dishonesty. I can forgive a cheater, before I can a liar.

5. Is racist, prejudice, or homophobic.
What, pray tell, is the difference between a cheater and a liar?
 
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biteme is offline biteme Post #110  April 1,2008, 7:27pm
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my top 5 are

-bad breath

-gross looking teeth

-nasty temper

-disgusting unroganized digs

-constantly trying to correct you in a conversation

-annoying needy family memebers

momma;s boy

-lives with parents(give up, dude!)

-bratty spoiled kids

-exercise and or sports freaks

I love motorcycles, so whats with that comment?
 
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