Regret ending with a match


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socalgal55 is offline socalgal55 Post #11  August 29,2010, 10:03am
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legend29 wrote :
Nice date-story! (*smile*)

As I get older, it seems I have become fickle...restless...indecisive.

It seems I'm constantly making bad choices with men. The men I'm probably supposed to be with I don't give a chance...and the men that I should stay away from I don't see (or I ignore) the red flags.

Which is why I have been sitting still lately and spending time alone trying to figure out what I want, and if I even want a relationship at this stage in my life. Maybe I will become what I fear most...a middle-aged woman that is set in her ways and is better off not in a relationship...but I sincerely hope that is not true.
Yep, if you choose the wrong types of men it's best to figure out the why and fix it before moving on. Most of my life I've chosen the wrong types of guys. I'm pretty sure I've done the necessary work on myself to not have that happen again. Only time will tell. I wish you success.
 
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Wonderwoman402 is offline Wonderwoman402 Post #12  August 29,2010, 12:23pm
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sweetkisser wrote :
Just out of curiousity, has anyone ever regreted ending with a match after going on a first date? Maybe you should've given him/her a second chance.
Nope. Not at all! I trust my gut, and if I said no after the first date it was for good reason.

In all the time I've been dating, I have, however, regretted giving someone a second chance. Believe me, it's usually not worth it.
 
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A past instructor of mine told me she was on a blind date. The first date she had no interest what-so-ever in this guy. She went on a second date and became fascinated. The third date she knew she would be married to him. They have two children and have been together for years. I liked the story...
 
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