Should I move on?

I’ve been chatting with this guy for 3 weeks. We had our first date already. His job requires him to be out of town for a month but he gets a week holiday afterward. I’m still not that comfortable with his schedule but I'm willing to give it a try.

After our initial meeting, I felt a connection with him, not a strong one though. However I feel that our conversation (in our email) has weakened. He doesn’t ask much about me, my likes/ dislikes, or just anything about me. He just basically asked about my day in a few sentences. On top of that his response is short too. So in order to keep the conversation flowing, I started to ask him those first date questions. I even tried teasing him but no response. I have no idea what he’s thinking! I got fed up and sent him an email asking whether or not if he still wants to continue to getting to know each other more. His replied was, “Yes, but I really don’t know what steered into that assumption.” I was astonished!! He can’t see it! I wrote back telling him the reason why I asked.

Later I sent him another email just talking about my day and more questions for him. Got no response for 3 days – apparently he didn’t receive my email due to his internet connection. Yesterday in his FB status, he said he’ll home tonight and tomorrow... but he didn’t ask to see me...I’m hurt. I feel like I’m the only one trying to keep this going. Should I move on?
Btw we didn’t even exchange phone # yet.

I’ve been chatting with this guy for 3 weeks. We had our first date already. His job requires him to be out of town for a month but he gets a week holiday afterward. I’m still not that comfortable with his schedule but I'm willing to give it a try.

After our initial meeting, I felt a connection with him, not a strong one though. However I feel that our conversation (in our email) has weakened. He doesn’t ask much about me, my likes/ dislikes, or just anything about me. He just basically asked about my day in a few sentences. On top of that his response is short too. So in order to keep the conversation flowing, I started to ask him those first date questions. I even tried teasing him but no response. I have no idea what he’s thinking! I got fed up and sent him an email asking whether or not if he still wants to continue to getting to know each other more. His replied was, “Yes, but I really don’t know what steered into that assumption.” I was astonished!! He can’t see it! I wrote back telling him the reason why I asked.

Later I sent him another email just talking about my day and more questions for him. Got no response for 3 days – apparently he didn’t receive my email due to his internet connection. Yesterday in his FB status, he said he’ll home tonight and tomorrow... but he didn’t ask to see me...I’m hurt. I feel like I’m the only one trying to keep this going. Should I move on?
Btw we didn’t even exchange phone # yet.

I got fed up and sent him an email asking whether or not if he still wants to continue to getting to know each other more. His replied was, “Yes, but I really don’t know what steered into that assumption.” I was astonished!! He can’t see it! I wrote back telling him the reason why I asked.

I am not a guy, but that sounds like really a lot of work to do. If I have been communicated with a person for only 3 wks and met just once, they are basically strangers and I never invest that much energy unless there is very strong chemistry that naturally sparks and flows.

When I am busy, it's completely normal for me to forget to write back more than a week even when I am interested. It's not that I forget them, but there are many other obligations and my own needs and wants to be attended.

I think that you are sending a lot of "high-maintenance" message, IMO. If I get a message like that, I interpret that there seem to be a lot of obligations that I personally would not wish to assume.

After our initial meeting, I felt a connection with him, not a strong one though. However I feel that our conversation (in our email) has weakened. He doesn’t ask much about me, my likes/ dislikes, or just anything about me. He just basically asked about my day in a few sentences.

Really?! how much energy is spent on sending an email, do you require two hour nap afterwards.

Then you're really not interested, or you expect or liked to be chased! ..so in your many other obligations and attending to your own needs, how many times did you check your email?

If Mr. strong chemistry was emailing you, you would find the time. strong chemistry doesn't make him a less of a stranger.

This is common post first date after seeing each other face to face. Some judge quickly and decide. But because they think you are a nice person they dont want to hurt your feelings so they instead try to fade out and dissappear after meeting you.

In other circumstances you arent choice A so he is looking and others who he is more interested in but if those dont work you are the backup plan.