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TheThinker is offline TheThinker Post #41  August 2,2010, 12:49pm
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BeautifulDay, how did your date go?? We're curious here on the update
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who was dessert?!!
 
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I hope you went to your date and were pleasantly surprised by him, and that he still acted like a gentleman. There are still some out there who respect us women and I think they know it by the vibs we send out.

My first date recently, I cooked for him at my house. He was the perfect gentleman and at the end of the night both of us said we had a wonderful time and planned for another date. What did I get in terms of intimacy? He hugged me and kissed my cheek. I thought it was sweet and would've taken more, but I am not going to push a man to move faster than even I am comfortable with. I look forward to being with him again. Take it a step at a time. Now if he said or made moves to want more then I would have to explain that in terms of my emotional arena that I need to take things slow. I've been without any intimacy for 4 years. I am ready to have something more, just not ready to jump into the fire.
 
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Update: Thank you to everyone for the very thoughtful and helpful advice! You all rock! I did go to his house for dinner and I do think he was hoping for dessert esp when he mentioned he had nothing on his schedule until late morning. I told him several times I had a very early meeting in the AM, so it would be an early nite for me. While we did get a little physical, he did not push for more. The tough part is I am still not feeling any chemistry, I was hoping in a different setting I might feel a spark. I am really glad I went because it helped me decide if we should continue to date or not. Thanks again!
 
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I would say that it went as expected. Very mature.

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