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Amarok is offline Amarok Post #1  July 30,2010, 8:48am
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So I went out on another date and we got to talking what we both are looking for, I asked him about what he thought of the date and he said it was really good. (We were both having an awesome time, we kept making each other laugh). He invited me over to his place (and my gut instinct felt good...didn't get any weird vibes). Watched a movie and of course we were making out (I made sure to keep his hands where they should be and he really like that, he actually said he appreciated me doing that). Problem was, he was getting aroused to the point of it hurting a bit and because I told him I wanted to wait a bit (and he knew this about me WAAAAAYYYY before that I didn't sleep around), he jokingly called me a tease. ????? I kept my hands to myself, just passionate kissing. Was this really a joke? Should I take it seriously? I wasn't grinding him or anything to have him think otherwise so it's weird. We then kissed some more and I told him that once it eventually happens it'll be worth it, and he agreed. I think he said that he wanted to get together again in between kisses ( :-) ). Gave me more kisses at the door. And was glad that I made it home safe after the night was over once I let him know (texted me this morning).

So stupid question time (as usual...gather around!) Does it sound like he is even remotely interested, or is this just another one that was only looking for the one thing? Like I said, he was appreciative of the fact that I kept him in check and I didn't let him do what he wanted.

I was thinking that this may or may not start to turn out to be something promising, but I don't know. I wanted to see if he will text at all today because I don't want to overdo it...

Thanks as always!

The nunnery looks appealing right about now....
 
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Your doing the right thing. Atleast he wouldn't think of you as easy to get and be more patient and respect you.
 
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TheThinker is offline TheThinker Post #3  July 30,2010, 9:05am
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Amarok wrote :

So stupid question time (as usual...gather around!) Does it sound like he is even remotely interested, or is this just another one that was only looking for the one thing? Like I said, he was appreciative of the fact that I kept him in check and I didn't let him do what he wanted.
So you had date with this guy, things are going swell... and you made out a bit at his place and things are groovy. Good.

And now you want to know if this guy is only after sex?
How could anyone possibly know that except him?
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When you start something physical, men like to finish it. You don't have to be "grinding" against him to accomplish it. If your at the pointing where it's "hurting" then the playfulness has gone to far.

He may have stated that he was appreciative that you kept his hands in line, but that was not what he was thinking.

Only he knows if his desire for you transcends his physical needs. Your not going to find out though if you keep testing his limits and he will quickly tire of the games.
 
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Men get turned on easier than most women and it's more apparent-thats all. It isn't going to cause medical problems and he can surely take care of the 'problem' himself after you have gone...and probably did.

Calling you a tease was, I suspect, partly a joke and partly to see where it got him...after all, a turned on guy is pretty interested in taking things to their maximum if possible.

I wouldn't worry about it....and you aren't a problem child here. I look forward to your posts!

Good for you setting your boundaries ahead of time, so that he knew before you started making out that you weren't going to end up in bed with him....so really this is a no foul/.no charge thing.

Keep us filled in on the future , if you want.
 
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Amarok wrote :
So stupid question time (as usual...gather around!) Does it sound like he is even remotely interested, or is this just another one that was only looking for the one thing?
Impossible to tell at this point. Go out with him a few more times and don't sleep with him and you might get a better sense of it.
 
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Mr_Right is offline Mr_Right Post #8  July 30,2010, 11:25am
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As I've mentioned before, if you want to know how interested he is, you can tell by how soon he follows up and makes another date. That's the easiest and best way to tell.
 
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PY_2 is offline PY_2 Post #9  July 30,2010, 11:40am

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For some guys, yeah it's like you work at the nuclear missile plant, once you've activated the launch code, it's ready to seek and destroy!
 
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greg75 is offline greg75 Post #10  July 30,2010, 11:47am
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PY_2 wrote :
For some guys, yeah it's like you work at the nuclear missile plant, once you've activated the launch code, it's ready to seek and destroy!
LOL!!! OK, slowly, disconnect the blue wire and the green wire. Good! Now, carefully, cut the red wire without touching any of the other wires.
 
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