Florida_Hostage is offline Florida_Hostage Post #1  July 27,2010, 5:29pm
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I have this one match that we skipped direct to email and I happened to answer a question with a youtube link to a song that I had just listened to while cleaning house. 2 days passed and I closed him. I'm not going to do this well, this eDating thing, am I? ****sigh**** If I have to work too hard, then I'd just rather not bother. I had the hiccups at the time and I think I was feeling annoyed. Go figure.
 
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Did the closing cure your hiccups?
 
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Okay...think of it this way. Everything in life worth having takes hard work, right? Good grades, a college degree, a house, a job, good relationships with family and friends, inner peace.

It all takes work.

Why would you expect finding someone to spend your life with to be easy?

Just try to keep some emotional distance until you are actually dating them. Until then...they're just pixels and voices.

Oh...and patience. Have lots of patience.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
Did the closing cure your hiccups?
Yes.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
Did the closing cure your hiccups?

MWUAH! Lizzie!

(sorry, OP, haven't seen her in a while...)

Oh, and for hiccups I recommend taking a deep breath, holding it, and bending forward from the waist until your forehead touches your knees. Hold it. Hold it. Hold it. Take a deep breath just before you pass out.

Timing is everything!
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
Okay...think of it this way. Everything in life worth having takes hard work, right? Good grades, a college degree, a house, a job, good relationships with family and friends, inner peace.

It all takes work.

Why would you expect finding someone to spend your life with to be easy?

Just try to keep some emotional distance until you are actually dating them. Until then...they're just pixels and voices.




Oh...and patience. Have lots of patience.

If only you could purchase "patience" then all would be good.
 
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Florida_Hostage wrote :
Yes.
Yeah, could just be a coincidence so still not yet a known cure.
Do you regret the close?

(Kisses right back at you, LBMM)
 
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littlebluemonkeymind wrote :
MWUAH! Lizzie!

(sorry, OP, haven't seen her in a while...)

Oh, and for hiccups I recommend taking a deep breath, holding it, and bending forward from the waist until your forehead touches your knees. Hold it. Hold it. Hold it. Take a deep breath just before you pass out.

Timing is everything!
LOL....gotcha.
 
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LizziePooh wrote :
Yeah, could just be a coincidence so still not yet a known cure.
Do you regret the close?

(Kisses right back at you, LBMM)
Regret? Yeah. Not so much.
 
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Florida_Hostage wrote :
If only you could purchase "patience" then all would be good.
You actually can, and it doesn't cost anything but time and labor. It's called volunteer work for a worthy cause. Takes your mind off dating. If you pick the right kind of work, it reminds you to be grateful for everything...even the men who disappear.
 
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