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longdistanceornot is offline longdistanceornot Post #1  July 12,2010, 10:06pm
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I got to the last stage in communication through eharmony with someone, I answered their open ended questions and, 1 week later, without responding, they closed communication.

I really did think that there could have been something between us, and if not then oh well, but I thought maybe, what if, but then she closed. I know this happens to everyone, it happened to me tons already and I just move one, but this once seemed different, so much so, that I found her address and I want to send her one final communication (which would be a letter to her home), but I didn't know if this was smart, or bad in anyway.

Yeah, it seems like I'm desperate or maybe a stalker, but I'm neither, I really just want to find the right one. I never did anything like this before, never even thought about this before towards anyone.

What do you think? Should I do this, or not? What would I say, or not say? Any advice would be helpful.
 
 
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longdistanceornot wrote :
I got to the last stage in communication through eharmony with someone, I answered their open ended questions and, 1 week later, without responding, they closed communication.

I really did think that there could have been something between us, and if not then oh well, but I thought maybe, what if, but then she closed. I know this happens to everyone, it happened to me tons already and I just move one, but this once seemed different, so much so, that I found her address and I want to send her one final communication (which would be a letter to her home), but I didn't know if this was smart, or bad in anyway.

Yeah, it seems like I'm desperate or maybe a stalker, but I'm neither, I really just want to find the right one. I never did anything like this before, never even thought about this before towards anyone.

What do you think? Should I do this, or not? What would I say, or not say? Any advice would be helpful.
Actually, yes, by doing this, it does make you desperate and a stalker.

Just becuase you liked her doesn't mean she liked you. Obviously, she didn't, or she wouldn't have closed you out.

Prepare to be contacted by law enforcement if you send a letter to her house.
 
 
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longdistanceornot wrote :
I got to the last stage in communication through eharmony with someone, I answered their open ended questions and, 1 week later, without responding, they closed communication.

I really did think that there could have been something between us, and if not then oh well, but I thought maybe, what if, but then she closed. I know this happens to everyone, it happened to me tons already and I just move one, but this once seemed different, so much so, that I found her address and I want to send her one final communication (which would be a letter to her home), but I didn't know if this was smart, or bad in anyway.

Yeah, it seems like I'm desperate or maybe a stalker, but I'm neither, I really just want to find the right one. I never did anything like this before, never even thought about this before towards anyone.

What do you think? Should I do this, or not? What would I say, or not say? Any advice would be helpful.
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I have a question. There are 5 main forums. I think I want to post it to all of them.

What do you think? Should I do this, or not?
 
 
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I am locking this thread as it is a duplicate of a thread in Using EHarmony.

http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...-her-home.html (match closed me, should I send a letter to her home?)
 
 
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