SpeaktoMe is offline SpeaktoMe Post #1  July 10,2010, 10:22pm
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Eeek. I just read another post on her, about a poster, who in her profile pics, dressed conservatively, and was still being asked early on about sexual stuff.

Here's the thing.

In my pics on my profile, yes you can see my ample cleavage. Is there something wrong with this? would it be sending out the wrong message to men? I didn't think so, till i read the othe womans post just now.
just because i am showing cleavage, doesnt mean i want 'one thing'. in fact the oppossite, but yes, i am a sensual person, but not a tramp.

nice advice pls???
 
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meri75 is offline meri75 Post #2  July 10,2010, 10:33pm
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When it comes to pictures in profiles, I think you should choose pictures which accurately depict you and your usual dress style.

Style is very individual. I almost never wear clothing which shows a lot of cleavage; but I have noticed men still glance at me, regardless of what I'm wearing.

It would seem to me, therefore, that is it the package, rather than the wrapping, that ultimately draws his interest!
 
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SpeaktoMe wrote :
Eeek. I just read another post on her, about a poster, who in her profile pics, dressed conservatively, and was still being asked early on about sexual stuff.

Here's the thing.

In my pics on my profile, yes you can see my ample cleavage. Is there something wrong with this? would it be sending out the wrong message to men? I didn't think so, till i read the othe womans post just now.
just because i am showing cleavage, doesnt mean i want 'one thing'. in fact the oppossite, but yes, i am a sensual person, but not a tramp.

nice advice pls???
We don't want to judge or jump into conclusion...so to give you proper advice, we need to see the pictures

(this is strictly for advising purposes )
 
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haha! good one py!

I don't have any shame in my body, and I dress accordingly. I like my cleavage, and yes, I like to dress the way i appear in my profile pics.
I don't dress like a librarian in my day to day, but i make sure its tasteful and not tarty looking. in my profile pics,i look classy, with cleavage.
 
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If you are comfortable looking at your pictures, then don't worry about it. One important lesson is to never, ever alter your appearance or personality into something that doesn't represent your true self. You might see a lot of advice regarding ways to attract more men and different types of men. Remember that what you really want is to attract men who will want the real you.
I say let your beauty shine in the way that is truly YOU.
 
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dropdeadred thanks!

when i look at my profile pics, I dont feel the least bit uncomfortable looking at theml. Nothing about it looks tarty, but u know, when men look at it, might be a different story.
but it definitely represents me and who i am, so if they have a problem with it, or pre judge me, not going to make it my issue.
 
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hey...librarians are sexy! I know this..I've seen them on films LOL.

but I agree with what redtx says. The right man will come along even if you covered everything up (but this wouldn't apply to me since I have x-ray vision).
 
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haha! i know what kinda films you been watching!

Xray vision huh? so what am i wearing right now? or not....lol
 
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SpeaktoMe wrote :
haha! i know what kinda films you been watching!

Xray vision huh? so what am i wearing right now? or not....lol
No nooo...it was films about books and library!! I promise!

oh you flirty flirt you!!!
 
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haha! u love it. you know you do !
now back to those pics, what's your email address again? just need some expert opinion you know!
 
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