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Bearling is offline Bearling Post #1  July 7,2010, 6:36pm
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Just for the sake of curiosity, , would you add the match you like on facebook?



Does most people also try to communicate on FB too?
 
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NO! Do NOT add your match to FB! How else are you supposed to let your friends know if your date is really crummy?! Plus, then they really get to know too much about you.
 
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Bearling wrote :
Just for the sake of curiosity, , would you add the match you like on facebook?



Does most people also try to communicate on FB too?
NO....then if it doesn't work out, you have them on FB (even though you don't want them as a friend) or you have to unfriend them. Both are uncomfortable. Speaking from experience, let them earn Facebook rights....maybe after you are exclusive .
 
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The only way I would friend a woman on facebook is if I know we are in a serious relationship.

Accepting friendship before even meeting her face to face...absolutely not.
 
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I would strongly dissuade you from adding him/her on FB, unless your gut/intuition tells u different.

I had a bad experience on FB, but itwas a reflection of the man I was seeing more than anything.

He read through ALL my posts from like 6 months - 12months ago, and then began a barrage of criticisms of my behaviour when i was single. Yes, I acted like a typical single woman. Nothing too shocking about it to most secure men.

the current man I am seeing added me on my facebook and he is just adorable. No criticisms, completely trusting, and understanding.

Tread carefully on this decision.
 
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yes, thats my principle on FB

unless I know the person (in real life) I dont add them to my FB. I have lots of personal stuff on there, that is not open to just anyone.
 
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I have a facebook page but I never update it. I wouldn't add anyone, but, it wouldn't bother me if they wanted to be added.
 
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I have added guys that I've met from online, once we've met.

well, I did add one before we met. and I'm glad I did. it's the guy I've been dating for two months. gut instinct worked out well in that case and it helped me feel even more comfortable with him when we did meet since I'd already seen the pages of his friends and family and knew he was who he said he was.
 
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I don't have facebook
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Bearling wrote :
Just for the sake of curiosity, , would you add the match you like on facebook?



Does most people also try to communicate on FB too?
I have made friends with women from dating sites that were interested in me. They often suggested the idea.

Recently, though I had a purge and got rid of everyone from my Facebook that is not a genuine friend, acquaintance or relative.
 
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