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greg75 is offline greg75 Post #1  July 4,2010, 5:17am
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Well, I had a second date with the girl I went out with a couple weeks ago. We spent the day attending a fourth of july festival in her city. We had a lot of fun and I really enjoyed every minute spent with her. I'm enjoying this phase of getting to know her, and so far, I am finding out that we have A LOT in common. In fact, it seems as if we seem to "get" each other. We've went through a few similar situations. Our parents are very similar, even though they have different faiths (her parents are Catholic, my parents attend an Assemblies of God church.) Her parents were so nice. I left last night being even more impressed by her and looking forward to our third date, which will be the zoo date!

I didn't try to kiss her good-night, but boy did I want to. We sat in my car chatting for quite awhile when we came back to her house. There was sort of a quiet moment when I possibly could have leaned in to kiss her, but alas I didn't, hahaha! I'm thinking it's probably good to not force anything just yet, but I do believe she likes me, and I am definitely liking her the more and more I spend time with her.

But, I am at that point now where it is "no-man's land" for me. This is the point where I seem to have trouble keeping the ladies interested. Not that I'm not an interesting guy, but I tend to do the wrong things and maybe push things along a bit too quickly. So, I'm not doing that this time. I am doing my best (and it's difficult because I am definitely liking this girl) to let things flow and just enjoy my time with her and getting to know her better. This is definitely one I don't want to screw up! She's a great girl!

Anyway, It was a beautiful day being out with a beautiful woman (personality and looks.) I woke up early this morning with a big smile on my face! So just one question, did I lose any brownie points by not attempting a kiss? If not, do you think the third date is make or break?
 
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I woke up early this morning with a big smile on my face! So just one question, did I lose any brownie points by not attempting a kiss? If not, do you think the third date is make or break?
Congrats, Greg...
sounds like you two are doing well!
I don't know if you lost any brownie points.
You'll know when you ask her to the third date.

I wouldn't wait too much longer, though.
 
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If she likes you, I'd say the Kiss would have been the right thing. If she doesn't like you, you already have a problem.

Too late now. Is there a third meeting planned?
 
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If she likes you, I'd say the Kiss would have been the right thing. If she doesn't like you, you already have a problem.

Too late now. Is there a third meeting planned?
Yes! We have a date at the zoo next week. I'm pretty sure she likes me, but I'm definitely going in for the kiss next week.
 
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Sounds like you did well, Greg. By now, if she wants to kiss you (which I suspect she does) she's probably getting antsy wondering when you're gonna plant one on her. Not a bad position to be in. Wait until it feels like the right time and then go for it.
 
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Sounds like you did well, Greg. By now, if she wants to kiss you (which I suspect she does) she's probably getting antsy wondering when you're gonna plant one on her. Not a bad position to be in. Wait until it feels like the right time and then go for it.
So not necessarily a bad thing that I waited?
 
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When you're together on your third date, you might consider asking her if you may kiss her. her response to the question may tell you a lot about her and the future of your relationship. Good luck, Greg!
 
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greg75 wrote :
So not necessarily a bad thing that I waited?
Nope. Not bad at all. Just a little delayed gratification.
 
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Yay for Greg! But ...

Kiss her on the next date, don't wait!

If she likes you, you'll only mess up by NOT smooching her.
 
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hold her hand at the zoo, and if she doesn't slap you, just grab her, dip her and kiss her.

chicks dig that stuff.
 
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