not all black women are sexual goddesses


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yojo598 is offline yojo598 Post #1  July 3,2010, 3:06pm
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I'm an African-American woman and I'm interested in dating other races, however, I'm apprehensive because it's seems I am being prejudged. It's absolutely amazing how some races view black women as sex goddesses to uneducated baby makers. I'm not either, I'm a well educated human and my tubes are tied!!

I'm just a woman and I happen to be black.
I'm always confronted with this "dilemma" within the online dating world and I find myself deleting many and ignoring the rest.
I get tired of explaining myself and debunking myths!!
What should I do? Give up and TRY to find a good black man, keep debunking, ignoring, deleting, or just give up
 
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Not to belittle your situation but guys think because I have big (insert term that won't be modded for breasts) I have little brain. You are better off without those type of men.
 
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A complaint of many men looking for sex doesn't seem at all uncommon, either.

I would set your matching open on race and just delete as necessary. A person making a race-based assumption seems like a bad choice of partner, anyway.
 
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Don't give up. Jerks come in every shade of the color spectrum. The nice thing is, so do good guys. Just be open-minded and dump the duds.
 
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I liked being a sexual goddess before I retired.

As others have pointed out - there are idiots of all persuasions. Avoid them at all costs and focus on the ones that seem to get it. They may be few and far between, but they are worth waiting for.
 
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People with open minds and hearts don't judge others based on their ethnicity. Simple as that. Keep looking yojo, as frustrated as you may be right now, don't get discouraged.
 
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