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After seeing someone for almost two months I successfully pulled off the mutual poof. I had her over one day and later that night I was playing a video game. She said that I wasn't going to play that all night. I told her it was my house. About an hour later she put her daughter in a stroller and walked the half mile home. She didn't really act mad, didn't really say bye, but I know she left because she was mad at what I said. She lives with her sister and brother-in-law (who happens to be a good friend that I work with). He texted me that I might want to call her because she seemed pretty mad. I haven't called partly because she tried telling me what I was going to do, partly because she left without even saying she was mad or even acting mad hoping I'd "figure it out" or something like that, and mostly because she's petite and flat chested and I miss me some fun bags. She hasn't called either because she was expecting me to call to apologize. Successful mutual poof accomplished! No fight, no sorries, no hurt feelings on my side, clean break. Awesome.
 
 
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Well..jolly good for you. So glad you're happy about it.
 
 
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I think it's a good idea not to have anguish over whatever who did.
 
 
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Why did you invite her over if you were planning on playing video games and ignoring her? I'd have left too, how rude.
 
 
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I think you completely missed the reason behind her departure. You had her over and then ignored her by playing vidoes - for an entire hour. I, too, would have left (although much sooner) but not because of what you said, but rather what you did. I would have considered you focusing on a video for an hour while you had me over as a guest (who wasn't interested in playing with you) to be selfish and rude.

And your reason for posting was...???

BTW, the poof wasn't mutual. She poofed on you!
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After seeing someone for almost two months I successfully pulled off the mutual poof. I had her over one day and later that night I was playing a video game. She said that I wasn't going to play that all night. I told her it was my house. About an hour later she put her daughter in a stroller and walked the half mile home. She didn't really act mad, didn't really say bye, but I know she left because she was mad at what I said. She lives with her sister and brother-in-law (who happens to be a good friend that I work with). He texted me that I might want to call her because she seemed pretty mad. I haven't called partly because she tried telling me what I was going to do, partly because she left without even saying she was mad or even acting mad hoping I'd "figure it out" or something like that, and mostly because she's petite and flat chested and I miss me some fun bags. She hasn't called either because she was expecting me to call to apologize. Successful mutual poof accomplished! No fight, no sorries, no hurt feelings on my side, clean break. Awesome.
Not quite sure how you see this as "mutual"......maybe selfish and arrogant? "awesome"??
 
 
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szgorzelski wrote :
After seeing someone for almost two months I successfully pulled off the mutual poof. I had her over one day and later that night I was playing a video game. She said that I wasn't going to play that all night. I told her it was my house. About an hour later she put her daughter in a stroller and walked the half mile home. She didn't really act mad, didn't really say bye, but I know she left because she was mad at what I said. She lives with her sister and brother-in-law (who happens to be a good friend that I work with). He texted me that I might want to call her because she seemed pretty mad. I haven't called partly because she tried telling me what I was going to do, partly because she left without even saying she was mad or even acting mad hoping I'd "figure it out" or something like that, and mostly because she's petite and flat chested and I miss me some fun bags. She hasn't called either because she was expecting me to call to apologize. Successful mutual poof accomplished! No fight, no sorries, no hurt feelings on my side, clean break. Awesome.

Was this before or after sex ???/

What was the reason she was over? What did you do before playing the game?

She was upset at you because you were ignoring her and you werent her priority. The game was.

Have you ever had past relationships/marriages where you lived in the same roof? Your argument is rather childish of saying "This is my castle and I will do what I want" That isnt going to fly with most women.

She likely left furious with you and furious you didnt get it.


Now the clock starts as to who will break first.

If you dont want a relationship with her why cant you just tell her rather than do this stuff that forces her to end it with you.
 
 
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Seems she is better off... especially since her "funbags" aren't up to par.

But maybe someone's cajones weren't up to par to just be up front and break up with her the mature way...
 
 
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It's called bragging.
Nah it's called lashing out on the internet because lack of guts to talk to the woman in person.

She dodged the bullet on this one.

Letting the woman walk back pushing the stroller half a mile by herself.....I don't know what to call it.
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szgorzelski wrote :
I haven't called partly because she tried telling me what I was going to do, partly because she left without even saying she was mad or even acting mad hoping I'd "figure it out" or something like that, and mostly because she's petite and flat chested and I miss me some fun bags. She hasn't called either because she was expecting me to call to apologize. Successful mutual poof accomplished! No fight, no sorries, no hurt feelings on my side, clean break. Awesome.
Hmmm, I'm wondering if 11:30pm EST is late enough on a Friday night to qualify as a drunk post. Not convinced, however.
 
 
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