ter001 is offline ter001 Post #1  June 16,2010, 6:05pm
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Where do I begin, that is the question. I starting thinking after my last divorce that I need to fix me before I could start again. I wasn't really broken I just neeed to be able to stand on my own two feet all the way around. Which I feel that I am closely there, enough that I am ready for a friendship that brews into a relationship. I don't want to jump in and drown that is why I want it slow brewing. Anyway after much consideration I joined eharmony but I feel like no one is seeing me. I am finding it also very hard meet people out in public. I feel like I am just blending in and no one is seeing me. Any thoughts??
 
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Hi ter001 and welcome to eHarmony Advice!

I have a couple of ideas for you.

As for "blending in" in real life, have you explored some activities in your area, like a meetup for a hobby you might have where you could meet some like-minded men? If you have a common area of interest to discuss that can establish a connection that can open the door to conversation and learning more about each other.

As for on eHarmony, I suggest you visit our "Using eHarmony" forum and post your profile for review. You're sure to get a wide variety of advice as to how you can make your profile truly convey who you are and capture a match's interest.

Hope this helps! I'm sure other Community Members will chime in to lend their own great advice too!

Looking forward to seeing you around more on the boards

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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #3  June 23,2010, 2:12pm
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ter001 wrote :
....I starting thinking after my last divorce...
Ummm....how many were there?
 
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